Nosy Neighbor. 0:12

My guest this episode is talented, lovely adult entertainer Krystal Palmer. She is just entering her first year of doing porn and is getting ready to do some amazing things in the near future. Crystal, thank you so much for coming on.

Krystal Palmer 0:28

Thank you so much for having me.

Nosy Neighbor. 0:30

So you just celebrated your one-year porn anniversary, if I'm correct, about a week ago.

Krystal Palmer 0:36

Yes.

What Pushed Her To Start

Nosy Neighbor. 0:36

And so what happened a year ago or even just a little bit before a year ago that said this is something I want to get involved in?

Krystal Palmer 0:45

It kind of goes back to about, I would say about five years ago, back in um the pandemic. I was curious about uh doing sex work, um, like online sex work. And I was at that point a little bit too uh too scared to get involved in anything, even though I know that would have been great because it was the the height of OnlyFans, but I waited. I, you know, thought about it a lot. And back about, yeah, probably at the end of 2024, I was kind of at a point in my life where I felt like I wasn't moving forward the way I wanted to. So I was like, I gotta make some decisions now, otherwise I'm gonna start regretting things. Uh, and so I just was like, why not just jump in the deep end and start doing porn?

Nosy Neighbor. 1:54

And what was your sex life before that, as far as your relationships? Were you you know swinging? Were you hooking up? Were you have conventional relationships? What was your sex life back then like?

Krystal Palmer 2:06

I am in a relationship currently and have been for the past uh past nine years. So I was in a very monogamous relationship up until starting porn.

Nosy Neighbor. 2:18

And your story is similar to a lot of them that I'm hearing, where OnlyFans really opened the door for people to discover themselves, to kind of reinvent and discover their own sexuality. You are a very beautiful woman, you're very attractive, but I wouldn't say that you're necessarily the ideology when we think of a porn star. We think of you know giant breasts and big blah, and you have kind of uh a naughty schoolgirl slash librarian kind of sex appeal to you. And I think that OnlyFans really opened that door during the pandemic for everyday women to realize that I can be sexy too, I can be beautiful too. You don't have to have just the big boobs and the big so what was that like when you first started out? That discovering of a new version of your sexuality.

Krystal Palmer 3:17

It was really exciting. I I feel like I've learned so much about my body in this past year that I wasn't, you know, very comfortable with. I I've just been having a blast. Yeah, it's just been a really fun time. I'm really, I'm just really glad that I started doing this. I I have really no regrets. And yeah, I think it's improved my just my sex life and my personal life as well.

Nosy Neighbor. 3:45

So yeah. What was that life? I mean you said you're in a relationship, you are in a relationship, you've had sex and stuff like that, but porn sex is very different than you know, monogamous sex and stuff like that. Uh, the stuff that you see in porn, when you stop and think about it, seems a little silly at times. What was that like finding your your porn sexuality versus your you know your adult sexuality that you were used to?

Krystal Palmer 4:13

It was definitely it was intense, especially at the beginning, doing like my first porn scene. I you know, it's like you you watch it, but you don't really know what you're getting into. But it's definitely, like I said, made me get really more comfortable with my body and being able to like kind of test my limits physically um with sex. Because you know, I was having very normal, you know, what you would call, I guess, vanilla sex overall, like nothing too like physically extreme. So yeah, I was just learning how to deal with all of that.

First Shoots And Real Boundaries

Nosy Neighbor. 4:57

Um that, yeah. And what was that that process like I like? What was the biggest kind of misnomer that you had as a woman going into this industry versus what really happened? Were there any kind of takeaways?

Krystal Palmer 5:16

I would say uh I guess I I kind of already knew like it was gonna be pretty professional because I had spoken with someone who was already in the adult industry. Like I, but I was you know surprised, like my first shoot that I ever did, um, all the paperwork I had to uh fill out. Um it was like a packet of paperwork for this very first shoot I did. So it that was something that I think I didn't realize how how much they take seriously, which is which is good that they they do that. They want to make sure you're there because you you want to be there, not because you're being forced to or in any way. And they want to make sure they you know respect your boundaries as well.

Nosy Neighbor. 6:06

And now you could have just done an OnlyFan, done some nudes, done some collaboration, but you not only did that, but then you jumped in and you're doing full porn scenes. You kind of went all in. What was that choice like?

Krystal Palmer 6:22

I mean, I have been thinking about for so long that I was just tired of overthinking, and I just decided there it's kind of hard to explain. I just I knew this is what I wanted to do, and I wanted to do it in a way that got me out there the quickest, I guess, is yeah, what I would say. Like doing like a mainstream porn thing definitely got my name out there quicker, and got me like you know, more connections faster than uh just kind of dabbling in it more so, like with just like the the pictures and stuff, like yeah. And also I'm I'm located in LA, so that was also another thing. I was like, I might as well, you know, already neck, you know, close to the valley, might as well go out there.

Nosy Neighbor. 7:17

And what was that like as far as you're doing your first scene? Was that I mean, are you able to were you nervous? Were you able to sit back and enjoy it?

Krystal Palmer 7:29

It was very physically exhausting. I think that was like a 40-minute scene, but it was like I realized how physical this job is, but it was also uh gratifying um doing it too. Um it was actually my very first scene, I was actually my first uh like real orgasm. So that really opened opened uh uh up my, I guess, yeah, just it was just really like intense.

Nosy Neighbor. 8:13

And then having celebrated your your one-year anniversary, is there any, I don't want to say regrets, but is there anything that looking back you would have wished you would have approached differently or gone this route, or maybe you did this too fast that you wish you would have taken a little bit more time? Is there anything that you would have adjusted having this been your first year that someone else just now coming into the industry might appreciate?

Emotions, Love, And Performing

Krystal Palmer 8:40

I don't think I have any regrets. I do, I guess, regret like not doing this sooner. Doing this, you know, maybe a couple years ago. Because I feel like yeah, I just I think I would have been fine even a couple years ago to do this. So that's that's my one regret, I guess, is just like not taking the chance sooner.

Nosy Neighbor. 9:05

There was that big, I mean, the COVID really boomed the the whole kind of adult amateur profession, and it changed porn forever. When you do this, I mean, we are as humans emotional people. We our emotions get involved. Watching a movie, we cry, even though it's a a movie and it's not real. We we get emotional to things. Sexuality is often viewed by many as an emotional tool. You know, sex is emotional. How do you separate those emotions?

Krystal Palmer 9:41

I wouldn't say I have to separate it, especially when I'm performing. There's not really the emotion, like like I don't think my scene partner is like emotionally, you know, uh, like they're physically probably into me, but not like the emotional side. And and I feel like maybe if I I feel like it would be worse if I wasn't in a committed relationship, because I I do have that um, you know, I I was brought up with the idea of sex meaning something, of it meaning like an emotional commitment that you're in love. And since I already have that committed relationship, when I do have sex with you know, someone for a scene, I mean, I get to have a lot of fun with them and get to enjoy it. But you know, at the end of the day, I'm like, I know I'm not gonna be like thinking, oh, it's gonna lead to something else after it.

Nosy Neighbor. 10:41

You're not filling an emotional void.

Krystal Palmer 10:44

No, yeah. I mean, I I get all of that from my partner. So I think for me personally, it it's probably more beneficial to already have that my needs met in that way.

Nosy Neighbor. 10:57

So now in doing research, I stumbled across an ad that you are now exploring brothel work. What uh we talked about going all in, and you apparently are going all in. What made you decide to not only go do the porn, but now brothel work too?

Krystal Palmer 11:18

That also has been something I've been thinking about for years. So I was thinking about both like back in the pandemic. I had um, you know, watched a bunch of uh documentaries at that time. I went down like a rabbit hole about you know the legal brothels in Nevada. And I yeah, I I thought, wow, it's so fascinating that these exist. I didn't even know they existed here in the United States. Uh, and I I felt like like this is something I can do. I I you know think I can uh provide a service to people who might want it or feel like they need it. And I I would say I I I'm pretty good at it. Hopefully.

Nosy Neighbor. 12:10

From the clips that I've seen, the stuff that I've watched, I I would agree. The the the thing that I'm always interested in when it comes to you know the brothel work is in the porn industry, you know, you have contrast where you get offered a roll or a part and it breaks down what you're gonna be doing and how the guy's gonna be doing it to you, and everything is very calculated. And now you're going from that environment where it's very calculated, methodical, you agree to this, you agree to that, to a brothel where a truck driver on a random notice can decide to pull over and come see you, and yeah, there is a negotiation that gets involved, and and I we can't talk pricing and all that stuff, so um, we're not gonna go there, but there is negotiation and and stuff that happens, so there is a little bit of that foundation, but nearly not what you're used to in the porn industry. Is there any concerns about that?

Communication, Safety, And Negotiation

Krystal Palmer 13:10

Yes, and no, I I I feel like I um from the experience I've I've got in, like a lot better at communication now than I was previously, like, you know, since obviously I was only in in a uh long-term relationship, you know, there's a you know, there's a lot, you know, you know each other's bodies, you know what you like and don't like. So you don't have to like verbally say, say like things to that person, to my partner, but like, you know, someone I'm just meeting for the first time, I'm going to have to communicate a lot more. So I think I'm not so much, yeah, concerned about not knowing what to say, because I I think I at this point know, you know, what I'm comfortable with and what I'm not comfortable doing with with people. And, you know, since it is a uh, you know, this is a legal um way of doing it, I feel like I I'm safe. I'm not gonna uh you know have issues um where I'm like alone, where I can't like ask for help. So yeah, I mean of course I am, you know, you're walking into something new. It it's something that yes, I have experience in to some degree, but uh haven't ever done it like this, you know. So I don't know. I'm just walking into it uh just ready to learn.

Nosy Neighbor. 14:42

And we're literally talking next week.

Krystal Palmer 14:45

Yeah, I'm going to be uh arriving uh Monday.

Nosy Neighbor. 14:51

Wow. And what was it like to choose the brothel that you wanted? I assume you did some research into the the various types of brothels. What was it about the one that you chose uh that made you decide this is where I feel like could be home?

Krystal Palmer 15:10

I I wanted to choose one of the brothels that was closest to Vegas just because I figured that the foot traffic would be better there overall compared to maybe some of the other ones. Uh I did get I did tour this one too, so I got to see what it looked like. Um I also talked to a couple of the ladies there to kind of see like just how the work environment is. Uh so yeah, that's you know, I just wanted to make sure I was choosing one that felt like you know, was like nice and you know, something I'd feel like I would do well in, hopefully.

Nosy Neighbor. 15:52

What is it like as I mean, everyone's out we're always comparing ourselves to other people? What is it like being in the porn industry constantly surrounded by beautiful women, including yourself? What is it like being surrounded by what do you do you feel like you're in your own niche? Do you feel competitive? How does it all you know, how does it work? Do you do you want bigger boobs? Do you wish how does your kind of body image settle and say, I'm beautiful, this is who I am, I'm embracing that, or do you feel kind of like God wish my boobs were like hers, or I wish I was this?

Krystal Palmer 16:33

I I mean everyone compares themselves, like that's just I think a part of life, but I've I don't think I've I've felt any more insecure than I already was about myself. Um I've gotten a lot of you know good feedback too, so that always helps hearing that. And I yeah, I don't I don't think I would change anything um about myself because I know that what I have works for for me. Like I know like I am the you know kind of the girl next door, you know, kind you know, kind of nerdy, but like, you know, obviously still cute. And I don't I wouldn't want to change that because I know it's something that people like about me, and I don't want to, you know, become something I'm not because I don't think I would do very good at pretending to be something else.

Nosy Neighbor. 17:36

Is there pressures to to kind of do certain things that you have to kind of fight off and say this is who I am? Is there outside pressures that that say if you did this, is those outside pressures? Is that something that's there or not?

Krystal Palmer 17:50

I don't feel like I've gotten that personally. Not from like, I mean, like I think one person one time said, I think you look you would look better if you didn't have things. I'm like, okay, well, that's just your personal opinion. Um just I don't know. No, I wouldn't say for me personally. I know I'm sure there's other uh, you know, other people have experienced other things differently because I think I, you know, I I fit the conventional beauty standard of our society where you know I don't really have to lose weight. I am, you know, yeah, you know, I'm not, I don't have tattoos either. Uh so yeah, I I would say no one's said, oh, you have to do this if you want to be successful. Like most people, the advice they've given me is just be yourself because that's what uh what will get you further along.

BDSM Preferences And New Experiences

Nosy Neighbor. 18:51

Is there anything that you've done? Like what is your like if I came to you and I had five different scenes that were five different doing something, what is kind of your bread and butter? What do you like to have done, Dia? What do you like? What is your like well, this will be a fun day of shooting?

Krystal Palmer 19:12

Uh gosh. Um I I be I recently uh started doing um some BDSM. Uh I love um kind of being the submissive in a scene. So when I get to like do something where like like um my C partner gets to kind of take the lead more so that always is something I really enjoy. So yeah, I mean I've definitely been enjoying like the BDSM stuff. Um and just yeah, just kind of like power play, I guess. I don't know.

Nosy Neighbor. 19:58

You've been in a conventional relationship, you've done you know the porn now, but you've also done some stuff with women, not as much as from what I've seen, but there's some dabbling and stuff like that. How has that been like is that something that's new to you? Is that something that was new doing this, or had you explored anything prior to that? Explored your sexuality.

Krystal Palmer 20:21

It's yeah, it's all been new to me. I have never had any sexual experiences with women prior to this, so I'm still not like I feel like I have a lot of learning to do. Uh and yeah, but it's been fun.

Nosy Neighbor. 20:45

And what is the reception? I mean, like, you've only been doing this a year, and you know, there's a video I've seen where it's one guy and four girls, you know, prior to shooting, are you is it a business atmosphere? Are you hanging out and talk to the other girls? Is it socialized? Is it fun? Or is it just getting prepared for your scene, focusing on that and and doing it, or is there kind of like a camaraderie that you have discovered in the industry?

Krystal Palmer 21:16

Uh yeah, I mean, when it comes to like uh working with with women, which I haven't uh been able to do too much, unfortunately, I feel like, because I haven't gotten those opportunities um as much. Um, but I always try to to like talk to them and you know make it more of like a hangout. Um it really just depends on on the person. Because I think some people are a little bit um not as open, like they're more like just in that work work mode. Um, but other people are more like receptive to uh to just like chit chatting.

Nosy Neighbor. 21:54

Has anyone stood out in your mind as maybe uh an actress that is taking you under her wing or giving you some good advice, or is it kind of all sink or swim and figure it out yourself?

Krystal Palmer 22:07

I would say uh it's somewhat but a little bit of both for me. I'm I'm in a group chat with other girls in the industry. So that has been helpful. I have um been friends with another girl, and we've, you know, definitely just kind of we've more shared stories and because we entered at around the same time. So she doesn't have necessarily more experience in years, but she is like, you know, she she's done more things than me, I guess, sexually. Like she's yeah, she's done uh more, I guess, intense things than I have for scenes. But no, I mean, yeah, yeah. So it just it's been kind of yeah, kind of a bit of both.

Nosy Neighbor. 22:59

I wish I could be a fly on the wall in that group chat.

Krystal Palmer 23:03

Yeah, sometimes it's I had a I have I actually muted it because it got a little bit too much.

Nosy Neighbor. 23:11

Too much as far as what, just graphic talk or no, it's just well people were arguing.

Krystal Palmer 23:19

I was like, okay, when people get to that, I'm just like, I just I can't have that going off every every other minute. Okay, let's let's like not.

Nosy Neighbor. 23:34

So you you do a scene and you go home, and like you said, you had the relationship. Is there a carryover? Is you said before that initi you know, before your sexuality was very vanilla, has that changed in your personal life? Does any of that carry over, or is it more this is a performance that I'm doing, and then when I'm at home, it's back to vanilla, which isn't a bad thing necessarily, it's who I am as a person. I don't know if that makes sense or not, but does it carry over? Do you hey honey, let's try this because I saw you know this while shooting today, or I enjoyed this while we were shooting. Can we does that ever spill over personally, or do you guys go back to kind of your set routine?

Krystal Palmer 24:24

I would say for the most part, set like yeah, kind of set routine, but we've we've done like some more stuff that's not what we were doing before. Uh we've done some role-playing stuff, like just no more creative, spice things up, yeah, yeah.

Nosy Neighbor. 24:50

Is there anyone when you're doing this? Now you're in this group chat and everything. Is there anyone that you're looking forward to working with, male or female, that you haven't had the chance with, or is it just kind of business as usual?

Krystal Palmer 25:06

Oh gosh. I mean, it's hard to I can't think of like a specific person that I would be looking forward to working with because I just I'm blanking on people's names. But I there's definitely some people out there that I have uh have wanted to work with and hopefully get the opportunity one day to do so. But I can think of people's name for you now.

Nosy Neighbor. 25:35

Now you mentioned your friend, and I you don't have to mention her name, but like is she someone that you'd feel comfortable working with, or is she too much of a friend that that would be too weird for for her to do that?

Krystal Palmer 25:47

No, I would definitely work with her. I think we would do really well just because we since we know each other um better. I think that always helps uh when you have like that uh that history already. Um I think especially with um with women, like it makes you more comfortable like being with them.

Nosy Neighbor. 26:10

And because I mean you said you weren't initially fully attracted to women, but now you've you've done roles. Has that increased now your desire to be with women, or is it just if that role demands that I be with a woman, I'm fine with that. I'm I'm comfortable with doing those things.

Krystal Palmer 26:34

I I would say it just it's made me more comfortable uh being with women. I mean, I we consider myself straight for the most part. Like I find women attractive. Uh and I I like kissing them. That's actually something that I've discovered. Something about kissing a woman, because it's you know, it's different than kissing a man. It's more sensual, usually.

Nosy Neighbor. 27:03

Is there ever kind of a uh a pause in your brain where you go, you know, like how did I get involved in this? Or is it just business?

Krystal Palmer 27:14

I I don't think I've ever had that thought that I can recall at least where I'm like where I'm like thinking about it. I mean I I I see it as, you know, yeah, a job at the end of the day and a performance. So I've just kind of like, I think when I'm doing it, I'm just thinking about the performance and making sure I I'm doing the best I can possibly at that moment.

Nosy Neighbor. 27:40

Now you've been doing this a year, is there anything that you've seen or seen others try that you haven't tried yet that you're waiting for that that role to to come along where you you want to explore something you haven't? You said you kind of dabbled in the BDSM and found that you like that. Is there anything else? Is there anything on your acting performance sex bucket list that you're still looking to try?

Krystal Palmer 28:07

Gosh. No. I don't know. I can't think of something right now. I would I would say just doing more more BDSM because I feel like I've so far it's it's been more like uh you know it's soft, like it hasn't been like too much yet. Like I I'm still kind of uh getting used to it. But yeah, I really would love to to to you know do more of that.

Nosy Neighbor. 28:45

What would what would you say the biggest difference between Crystal Palmer, the performer, and Crystal Palmer on a Saturday afternoon just you know living life?

Krystal Palmer 28:58

I I feel like there's not too much of a difference between my performer self and just my civilian self. I mean, besides being more sexual when I'm performing, because I'm not like like you know, you wouldn't if you saw me on the street, you wouldn't think, oh you're like having a bunch of sex. I I look very reserved in comparison, typically.

Nosy Neighbor. 29:33

You do, and I think that's part of your appeal though, too. I think there's uh an everyday girl appeal. And so you have the porn, you have the only fans, you have the brothel work. Is there you know a five-year plan? What is what is year two and three look like for you as far as you know, do you see yourself doing more brothel work and less videos? Do you see yourself dabbling in the brothel and increasing videos? How do you where do you see a balance? Or right now are you just kind of exploring everything?

Krystal Palmer 30:11

Uh for for that, I would say I would like to focus on the brothel work um in the next five years. I I would say that's if that works out for me, that's where my heart will be for the most part. Um, just because I feel like I will get not that I'm getting, I'm not that I'm not getting fulfillment from like being a performer, because that has been fulfilling, but I feel like long term I will get more fulfillment out of that work. Because I feel like I will be directly like directly affecting someone's life in a positive way, more so.

Nosy Neighbor. 30:54

And that's one of the things I mean, we've had several brothel workers on, and that's one of the things that I found surprising is a lot of people just assume it's guys looking to fuck, uh, but it's really a lot of guys that are are lonely, or you know, someone that doesn't have anyone that wants to feel that connection, and so it's really a service that they're providing that's much more emotional than I would have thought for for the client, and many of them find it very rewarding and not as judgmental as one might assume, and so it's not for everyone, but it's sounds interesting. I haven't seen you talking too much about it on your social media that you're getting ready to do this.

Krystal Palmer 31:42

Oh, yeah, I mean, I didn't know like how much I could promote it, I guess. Like, cause I'm a little like worried that like my account's gonna get like you know, taken away for it. Um I I am planning on, especially like with my first week coming up, doing because I you know I have my TikTok that I'm trying to grow as well as um on Instagram, like just creating like you know, videos, like day in my life type of videos to kind of promote it without saying come, you know, come see me or something. Just like, hey, I'm here, I'm educating people that like, hey, I am doing this now. So I I just been like, you know, try to tread with caution because I know that um that wasn't too long ago where a lot of the girls lost their like Twitter accounts.

Nosy Neighbor. 32:36

Yep.

Krystal Palmer 32:37

So I'm just yeah, not trying to get that taken away from me.

Nosy Neighbor. 32:43

Yeah, a lot of the ones that we follow got taken down, and which is too bad because there's a lot of nudity on Twitter, but if you're a sex worker, it gets taken down, and yet sex work is completely legal. So, I mean, it's not like you're advertising looking for underage kids or anything like that. They're doing a legal profession, but yet a porn star they don't get their stuff taken down hardly as much as a legal brothel worker, yet the content is basically the same, it's just the judgmental aspect of it. So, but wow, I wish you good luck in that. Uh, one last question. You do a lot of sex, you do a lot of exploration. Do you have your own personal favorite toy that you like to use?

Krystal Palmer 33:33

Uh yes.

unknown 33:37

Tulsa.

Krystal Palmer 33:38

My magic wand. My magic wand is magical.

Nosy Neighbor. 33:44

I'm always fascinated by the the stuff that the professionals seem to use. But Crystal Palmer, I appreciate you coming on. I think you're a lovely young woman. I can't wait to see more of your content and stuff like that and see what this next year brings for you because there's a lot of things coming up. I wish you luck. I'll include all of your links and everything like that. And I hope people check her out. Uh, subscribe to her OnlyFans uh because that's definitely worth checking out if you like uh beautiful women. And uh I wish you luck.

Krystal Palmer 34:17

All right, thank you so much, and thank you so much for having me.