Welcome And Meet Megan Ashley

Nosy Neighbor. 0:13

My guest this episode is Megan Ashley. She's a Minnesota-based married bisexual content creator who lives out her naughty sides online through camming, customs, and collabs while still keeping it fun and genuine. Megan, thank you for joining us today.

Megan Ashley 0:28

Well, thank you so much for having me.

Nosy Neighbor. 0:30

So tell us a little bit about yourself growing up. What kind of family did you have? What was the image of sexuality for you growing up?

Megan Ashley 0:40

Well, it might be pretty common in this line of work or

Rural Upbringing And Religious Messaging

Megan Ashley 0:42

or just the opposite. Middle of nowhere, farms all around me, classic Minnesota. And for the sexuality side of things, very religious based. And uh of course I was curious about things, but uh I really didn't explore until my twenties, and then I really dove in.

Nosy Neighbor. 1:05

And then at what age did you get married?

Megan Ashley 1:08

I got married uh really young, around 19.

Nosy Neighbor. 1:12

So when you get married, I mean at that age around Minnesota, the idea was more, I mean, the

Young Marriage And Unmet Needs

Nosy Neighbor. 1:17

mindset was more conventional marriage. At what point did you guys start talking about things, or was it even before the marriage?

Megan Ashley 1:25

Yeah, so I was a little more open with that. I uh dated my now husband in high school, uh, but that's not who I first married. So I wasn't sure if I wanted to stay with him or not, uh, teenage relationship, and I was never going to pursue to let that go as far as sex, of course. And then we parted ways and uh got married and kind of realized that the sexual compalability piece was a lot stronger and more important than I thought it would be. And uh, even though, you know, I was doing all the things with my then husband, uh, which was probably a big part of the motivation to get married. So young. But I started to uh dive into ideas about showing off online and different things like that. I feel like what triggered that more than anything was the not getting what I was what would fulfill me sexually.

Nosy Neighbor. 2:35

And so how did that conversation start then? I mean, bringing it up that yeah, you're married, but now you want to start showing off online. Was that an easy conversation? Was that something that kind of interests both of you? How did that go?

Megan Ashley 2:48

Right. And it was interesting uh because we kind of started that relationship still very sexual and both exploring things and doing a lot of things together for the first time. And we

Reddit Feedback And Postpartum Confidence

Megan Ashley 3:01

even went to like a nudist resort and stuff like that. So we had a similar mindset with sexuality, but I wasn't feeling fulfilled. And so then I think I got some idea to just kind of post a picture somewhere, and so the start of things was Reddit, and he was all for it. He was like, sure, how about we just do it on my account? And I just posted a few pictures on his account, and I was very happy with the feedback, the comments, and it really gave me the confidence that I needed at that point, especially because that was after having one baby. So I kind of needed that boost of confidence, and I asked if I could take it from there and make my own account, and so then I did do that, and then then I then I really went down the rabbit hole.

Nosy Neighbor. 3:57

And so, what was that? I mean, it's one thing to share pictures, you can be anonymous, you can, but then going to camming, even then, it's still a little bit of an anonymous, but now you're doing more collabs and meeting with

Camming Polyamory And Starting Over

Nosy Neighbor. 4:10

people. What was that like? And what was that kind of conversation like to say this is something else that I want to do and keep on pushing that sexual boundaries? How did that go?

Megan Ashley 4:22

Right. And so there is a divorce in the middle of all of this, and then the transition over to my now husband, who was my boyfriend in in high school, anyways. So there, yeah, there uh there's some rocky points in there, but throughout it, I I knew I knew I was finding myself and growing in that way, and I started messaging lots and lots of guys and just having a lot of fun with all that, and actually had like a separate relationship out of the marriage for a while that he he knew about, and so I was also exploring polyamory as well and seeing what we could do with that, and he was open to that as well. But I was pretty strong on what I wanted, uh, you know, specific person and different things, and I was kind of on and off with all of that. But as things went on, then I happened to hear about camming as a site for it, which of course is chatterbait. But I I heard it from a friend, and they had her and a friend decided to go on and they didn't know anything about it and had some fun on there. Um, and at that point I was finally like, okay, I've already done some of the just really simple posting pictures and little things like that, very anonymous, and um probably didn't even have an OnlyFans or anything like that yet. And so I was like, why not? Why not? And so I finally gave it a go. And I definitely didn't have the confidence I do now, but it takes some time and it and I grew with it, and I'm so happy I did because it was just so fun. And so I was shocked by myself and amazed and excited about trying that new venture, and he was not involved, and that was fine, but I didn't know if I wanted to stick with it, I really didn't for uh the first few years of doing it as well. So I think I started on there on four years ago, I'd say. So I wasn't so solid on sticking with it, and then after kind of the divorce and things happened, um talking to my now

Support From Her Husband And Collabs

Megan Ashley 6:51

husband, he was actually very supportive of the site and knew of it, and he had been a mod before on there and helped other girls. So he was very, very supportive. So that's where things very much escalated throughout all this, is that I finally had someone that was there to kind of back me up with it. And if I wanted to keep doing that and use it as an outlet, he has been more than well like happy with that. And as a very creative person, I have found it to be a very creative outlet as well. And I kept telling myself that I wasn't going to keep doing it if it wasn't making me happy, and that I was never going to do anything that didn't make me happy as well. So when I'm online, I I know that I can kind of choose where things go and do what I enjoy and still make people happy and have a fun, good time, which is what I think everyone should be aiming to do. And that's helped a lot. And then I was able to pull my now husband into it, which was kind of crazy. And more and more I'm never really online alone, which is kind of good. Uh, it can get a little lonely on there when it's just you, but uh he he's been really great and supportive with that, so I've just kind of explored it more and more and taken it further and further, and I really knew that I wanted another girl to go online with. And so collabs really started be to begin once I really started looking for that. And I got lucky enough to find one, and then that's evolved, of course, with her and her husband, and then I have another couple near me that I can go on with her and her husband as well. And so it's been really exciting to see that kind of growing. And I don't know, I think it's pretty freeing, even though in that sense it's not anonymous. We all know who each other are, but we're all just pretty regular people having some naughty fun online.

Nosy Neighbor. 9:14

And you you briefly mentioned it, and I think that's an important thing to talk about because you said that you had found the feedback on Reddit kind of empowering for your own self-esteem. And I think

Why Everyday Creators Took Off

Nosy Neighbor. 9:26

one of the things that is nice about chatterbait and only fans is yeah, there's a lot of professional that have the Barbie kind of look and the barb, you know, perfect bodies and stuff like that on Chatterbait and OnlyFans. But, and I mean this in a polite way, you're a Midwestern girl, yeah. Big breasts, you I mean, you're a beautiful woman, but you're not the stereotypical classic porn star image that most people have in their brain. You're a beautiful woman, great body, great breast, but you're not what you would classically think of. Like, oh, I'm a an adult model, I'm a you know, and I think that's what OnlyFans and Chatterbait really did, especially during COVID and after COVID, was allowed everyday women because you can go down chatterbait and find all different sizes, all different shapes, young, old uh women, some that are professional and some that do it professionally, but others are everyday housewives. And I think after COVID, that really opened the door for everyday women who may have been in a happy marriage or maybe in a happy relationship, but they just didn't feel that I want to feel appreciated again. I want to be told I'm beautiful. I think sometimes in marriages we forget to tell our partners those things, and so we find these women going on and finding more of a sexual awakening by having these guys tell her that they're beautiful, and there's kind of a self-esteem uh boost in realizing that everyday women can be just as beautiful. I think after COVID and during COVID, sites like Chatterbait and OnlyFans, yeah, you can get some professional women, but I'm never gonna get one of those women. I'm more likely to find a woman like you versus some of these other women. I think guys started realizing that, and their expectations I don't want to say lowered, but their expectations became more realistic, if that makes sense. Yeah. And no, definitely that empowered a lot of women to be able to find comfort into putting on things like OnlyFans and Chatterbait.

Megan Ashley 11:34

And I think that's why it's been growing and growing. I have been able to kind of push into that because I was like, I did have that wake-up moment of what the heck am I doing? Why am I still doing this? And even with my husband then empowering me and encouraging me to keep going with it and having fun with it, I questioned why I had fans, why I had anyone subscribing or following me, and why I should even be doing it when I'm not the classic porn star model. I'm not perfect, but at the same time, I'm like, no, I got blonde hair, I got blue eyes, I got big tits, I got stuff to show off. And I'll one way or another, I'll win them over with personality or probably my eyes or something. And and it really is that I am the more realistic option. And and I love us Midwest girls because I think we're we're we're a very good option. But I think that is a big reason why that has grown. And so it is fun to find these other housewives uh that are just taking it and running with it. And between me and my two other girlfriends, you know, there's there's an age range there. And they're older than me. And the one she does it full-time, and of course, then makes way more money than than me. And I keep questioning myself, why don't I go full-time? But and yeah, so we enjoy um going on Sex Panther, and then I I've focused more so on fans leave, but I I love my fans there, and it's it's been great though to connect with so many fun people in Chatterbait. And you know, yeah, you get you get some tough ones, but you get a lot, a lot of great ones, and it is fun being that very realistic option because that makes the flirting feel even more real. And that's my goal, just to keep things real and exciting, because I'm I'm just a regular housewife, Midwest girl.

Nosy Neighbor. 13:50

Is there anything that your now husband is there any guidelines or rules or established or boundaries that you guys have in place that says, Oh, you know, you can do this and that, but I prefer if

Boundaries Jealousy And Real Chemistry

Nosy Neighbor. 14:02

you didn't go up this avenue, or how does how does the marriage stay a focus and not lose yourself in these other escapades?

Megan Ashley 14:12

Sure. I used to call them my sex capades, and it's been some fun times, and I didn't really want to lose that. And so I knew I needed someone that would be open and willing to give me some of that freedom that when I have an opportunity to have a little fun on the side, that I can. And that does not mean there's always a camera around. And so I I really appreciate being able to have that uh that communication with him. So we we keep it really open. I mean, in that sense, yes, open relationship to the extent of being able to uh have some fun at times, but uh at the same time very committed to each other. And it's really just gonna be kind of a case-by-case basis. And I do try to keep it to the filming uh and keep it to collabs. I don't want to just be going around sleeping around, but I want to have fun with uh fun with good people that I connect with and and then you know make some good content at the same time because why not? But uh that that's been kind of that good outlet for me. So that I have, you know, my girlfriend's hubby has a nice, nice size dick, and then I can uh enjoy that from time to time. So there's there's some perks, and uh he can benefit as well. So that's that's the good the good balance is making sure everyone's happy and that he, you know, he's not getting left out either. And honestly, some nights online he's becoming more of the star than I star than I am, so he definitely seems to benefit. My friend's husband, yep.

Nosy Neighbor. 16:00

Does jealousy ever come up with your husband? Does he know this is what I got into when I started dating you? Is this how do you keep that relationship? Is there a separation where when you're with your your friend and your friend's husband, is it a different mindset?

Megan Ashley 16:17

Sure. So yeah, typically it would be me with my girlfriend or me with uh her and her husband, but there has also been times with all four of us, including my husband. So it he's never you know leapt out or leapt out of the scoop of what's happening, and yeah, really no jealousy has uh arise there. Uh in the end, I'm coming back home to him, and he can uh have fun with all of us. And and the best part there is that there is a friendship there with who we collab with. So we all hang out and get to know each other and spend time together outside of just doing uh videos and collabs and things. But uh so from online or with with them versus with just my husband and stuff like that, I would say there's definitely different personalities or different the best, I guess the best description is personalities, but it is still very highly enjoyable. We have a good time. I I know I always say I don't want to fake it, like I want to enjoy it. I'm you see me moaning or something, it's it's real. Like I'm enjoying myself. So I don't hold back per se, but I do think those special moments and the things that we connect with sexually isn't always seen on camera. But at the same time, if they want to see how you know me and my husband interact truly, you're gonna see some of that on cam for sure. So it's it's not all different per se, but it it always connects deeper and differently when there's no camera around for sure. But when we're on cam, it's really not much different with our friends and such because we're just all having a good time and enjoying and just hoping we all get to fuck and have a good time.

Nosy Neighbor. 18:15

Now you took the the photos and really ran with it and kind of I don't want to say you're at the extreme end of things, but what would you advise uh a young married couple that are thinking

Practical Advice For New Couples

Nosy Neighbor. 18:27

of doing maybe some photo sharing or camming? What were some pitfalls that you realized that you wish you would have known and avoided, or suggestions that you might give to them?

Megan Ashley 18:40

Sure. I would say start with something simple. I think Reddit was a great outlet. Something like that would always be fun, and it never hurts to do something like OnlyFans or Fans Lee. And I think the scary part in the beginning is for people to find out about you, but I had to think about it myself and realize if they find me, then they're looking for similar stuff. So then it's really not too worrisome, is it? So I think it's fun to explore and just kind of find what your your niche is, what they enjoy doing, and and that could be together or separately. Uh, I find it really entertaining when my uh most recent couple, uh girlfriend and husband that I get together with that her husband will go live as well on his own and have a great time and make his own own little group of fans. And I think it's just really funny and fun. So I think it's great to find everyone's kind of fun and voice in it, and so that you both are enjoying it and kind of creating those connections with people. And just don't don't be scared to do the things that you enjoy and put it out there because especially if there is a type of porn that you like that you could create, that's probably one of the best places to start. And you'll probably be able to create it better because you know why it's good. So I would say it doesn't it doesn't matter too much. You can use your phone, maybe a good laptop though, and a good camera on it. That definitely helps.

Nosy Neighbor. 20:20

I think one of the things that you kind of hinted at was, and I think is a good thing that you guys do is incorporate the husband. I think it's a lot easy for a lot of people for the woman to kind of be in the spotlight because the women get more clicks. Uh, but incorporating the husband helps prevent some jealousy because, like you said, there are people that do enjoy engaging with the husband and talking about the husband or saying, God, what a lucky guy you are to have these, you know, women and their friends, you know, hanging out with you. And so I think it's important to kind of establish that connectivity versus saying this is all about me and myself and having the husband just be the kind of photographer or the guy that's moderating, it's important to include him. And I think that's something that you did very well with you and your friends.

Megan Ashley 21:08

I agree. That definitely seems to help. And at the same time, like I said, it it creates those different fans and different moments, and it's led to so much more growth and exploration that we didn't even expect to do. Uh, but of course, on our own terms of if it's something we wanted to do, and it's more fun and exciting because he's involved. And I think that we honestly get more clip clicks being a couple at this point uh than I would as just as a woman on there. And I'm okay with that. And they had the Chatterbait CB15 event, and he got to go along with me. And I think it was one of the best vacations we've ever had. So we enjoyed that a lot. And we just got to talk to so many great people there and see so many couples. Um, but it is it is really fun to have that spouse on there because they can be helpful as a cameraman, something like that. But as much as the chat can get goofy with it, uh, it is really helpful to have, you know, uh you don't have to use a dildo. You can just use the real thing. Uh, but you know, some of them say other things and don't and they just want to see the the woman and that's fine too. So there's always the option to kick the hubby off the screen if needed, but it is really, really helpful and nice to have both of us on there.

Nosy Neighbor. 22:43

And I do think it has shifted over the years. I think, especially during COVID, the girlfriend experience was much more popular where they didn't want to see guys involved because they wanted to feel like they were connected and subscribing to the girl and she was to be, but now I think with COVID gone and people living more normal lives, I think welcoming the husband has become a little bit more popular, like you said, uh in doing that.

Megan Ashley 23:10

Yeah, I completely agree. I wish I had taken advantage right during COVID as well, but I was kind of part of that uh COVID afterwards and kind of choosing new path with life and uh seeing where I could take things, and I still don't even know where I'm going, but I'm having a lot of fun with it, and it's it's really great having him on there, and we've had we have a lot of fun with our fans there.

Nosy Neighbor. 23:39

What would you tell a couple or a woman that's thinking about doing this but is afraid about being found out or caught? I mean, there are yeah, with OnlyFans you have to subscribe in order to see things, and

Privacy Risks And Staying Separate

Nosy Neighbor. 23:51

there's other safeguards, but you're also on social media, and so anyone could stumble across it. What kind of protections, or is this just I accept what I'm doing, I'm enjoying what I'm doing, so I'm not doing anything illegal. So if I do get found out, that's just part of that risk. How do you approach family, friends that don't know what you're doing? What kind of protections do you have in place, or is that a fear, or is that something that lingers, or have you just said, I accept this? If I'm if I'm smoking, I accept that you know it could cause cancer. If I do this, I accept it. Possibly someone might find out.

Megan Ashley 24:32

Yeah, I did come to a point now that it has been so many years, too, that if someone found out that doesn't already know, uh, there are some friends and probably a couple family that I have told. Yeah, I guess a few family. So, and that the friends are a lot easier, right? There's there's the type of friends you can kind of tell a little better that are gonna understand. But sometimes those longtime friends are gonna be probably the most difficult. So uh I would say that don't be too worried about being found out at the same time. I it's not a great example, but someone that somehow knew me saw me like my second time ever on Chatterbait, which was really funny. Uh, so that really threw me into the deep end right away. And to, you know, point out the fact that anyone could see me. But honestly, I was not too surprised, I guess, but I just laughed about it. I realized, you know, they're on there too, and they were respectfully like, oh my goodness, I'm so shocked and I'm just not gonna stay here. And it was I just really wanted to know who it was. But honestly, your the likelihood of it is is pretty low, uh, as surprising as that is. Uh, as far as social media goes, I have asked uh the girls when I was talking to people at CB15, and I went around and I was like, How do you choose and decide to go on to something like Instagram? Because that is one I will not do. I unless you maybe have a completely separate phone and stuff like that, you can't really keep it separate from all of the meta, everything. And in order to be on there, I would really need to make sure that it's not just recommending me right away to everyone they know I know. So I think the best way to go about it, anyways, to be safe, and it's really important, is to choose a name, um, make a new email, have a different phone number uh for all of that, and set it up like a business because it it truly is. And you you want to have all that set up separate anyways, so that it's just easier to make all these different accounts and profiles, and then everything is under that. So that protects you, that keeps you a lot safer. And then at the same time, from there, it's up to you how far you're gonna take that with what sites you're on and how you promote yourself. And I've gotten more and more out there. I went to Exotica, I wasn't there for all the days. I wish I could have been there longer, and I honestly probably could have seen some people that I would know.

Nosy Neighbor. 27:16

And I was ready for it.

Megan Ashley 27:19

I don't think we talked, but no, and I was there the very last day for just a little bit.

Nosy Neighbor. 27:25

Oh, I went Saturday or yeah, yeah.

Megan Ashley 27:29

And I wish so bad that I was there on Saturday, but I couldn't make it work, so I think it just it takes some time and don't rush it. But as long as you kind of keep things as separate as you can, uh, you can keep things pretty well safe and don't have to worry too much about things being out there right away, and really not that many people have really found out. It's really me telling them myself, which is definitely the better way to go.

Nosy Neighbor. 28:00

And you made the point. I mean, there is no 100% protection. And like I've I've told people that I've invited to come on as guests, or like, I don't I don't I'm not sure I want to come on because I don't know what kind of protection I would have. I'm like, well, we're an adult podcast, and we because we have explicit material, you know, they have to sign up or acknowledge that they're going on to search for adult podcasts, and so you can't find yourself in the back of an adult bookstore and be surprised what you find. It's like these people that might find you are looking for this kind of content. If they find you, I mean, yeah, Twitter, someone might stumble across Twitter, but even most of these Twitter accounts say you're about to look at an adult profile, or you're you know, this profile has nudity, so you're going into something saying this is what I'm looking for, and so then to turn around and act shocked, like, oh my gosh, I saw her on you know this. Well, what were you doing on there to find her?

Megan Ashley 29:00

So exactly. Who can they even tell? So they might be able to tell a friend, but they might not be able to tell their wife or someone else if they're stumbling upon someone.

Nosy Neighbor. 29:12

That reminds me, I used to work at the airport in Minneapolis, and I saw Ron Jeremy once, and he's the legendary porn star. And so I went back down to my coworkers, I'm like, I just saw Ron Jeremy, and they're like, Who's Ron Jeremy? And it's like, well, do I admit how I know who Ron Jeremy is, or do I just say, Never mind, because I'm almost outing myself by admitting that I know who Ron Jeremy is, and they all had these dumb expressions on their face, like, well, who is that? I'm like, never mind, uh, just someone else upstairs, so don't worry about it.

Megan Ashley 29:46

But yeah, there's there's and then if they look them up, what would they think? And it sucks that it has to be that way. It really sucks that we have to be so hidden, and yet so many of us are out there looking at all of it, but we have to be hush hush, and we we would have to be worried that they would say something about you, being like, wait, why would you know this porn star?

Nosy Neighbor. 30:08

So what is it? I mean, you've kind of hinted that you don't know where the future goes if you want to do this full time, but what are some things that are kind of percolating in the back of your mind of what's next? You said you

Future Collabs And Minnesota Community

Nosy Neighbor. 30:20

had two groups of friends, uh, both are older. Are you looking for more women men to collaborate with? Are you happy with the group that you have now? Are you looking for like one-time collaborations? How do you go about finding people in Minnesota exactly that great of a I would assume for these kind of things? What are you kind of looking at? Are you happy with the collabs that you have right now? Are you looking to expand?

Megan Ashley 30:46

Right. And I think for me, I need to pace myself. So I really like uh taking the amount of time I can right now to do the online uh camming and posting and all that. I think I would enjoy it full-time as well, but it is it it would just be a full-time job in that sense, and I want to make sure I'm enjoying it. So I do look from time to time for others, but uh it is very specific and strategic at this point. Uh, we're very happy with who we have, and I I love the the gals that I get together with. And so at this point, it would be uh quite specific for rather hair color or something else that would just pull in another crowd of people. Um, everyone has been telling me to get with a BBC, and that has happened now. So there's some videos coming for that. But things like that where there's a certain categories that uh fans are really, really wanting that would be amazing to do for a collab if we can make it happen, and some dreams and hopes of of my husband's for who he wouldn't mind having us collab with. So, and that's not anyone specific, but it's certain certain types and things like that. But like what? Give some examples, like a redhead or something like that. Uh, you know, he his his type of girl. We gotta get him someone that he's got an eye on or something. If we can if we can pair that up, that'd be really fun. Uh, but yeah, it is it is a little tricky. There's a lot of fun, naughty groups that happen all around the cities. Uh and so it's just a little more hush-hush around here, but I think Minnesota's pretty naughty. We just we just try to keep it quiet. So it was it was difficult to find these gals, but I'm happy I found them. And I'm hoping to still grow a bigger and bigger group of of all of us, and just it that doesn't even mean that I get all that I work together with them and collab with them or not, but just kind of feeling like we all have a big group of us together, that would be really, really cool. Of course, that happens in the bigger cities like Vegas or Los Angeles and stuff like that. So I'm like, why can't we have a nice big group here in Minnesota that gets all along together and help and support each other? It would be really fun.

Nosy Neighbor. 33:27

Now you said both of the women that you collab with are older, correct?

Megan Ashley 33:31

Correct.

Nosy Neighbor. 33:32

Have you thought about going much younger, getting a teenager, or is that just I'm a mature age, I'm looking for women

Age Gaps And Helping Newer Creators

Nosy Neighbor. 33:39

that I can more relate to?

Megan Ashley 33:42

I am on a a bit of a generation uh wouldn't say gap, but uh a big change in the generations. I'm right on that edge. And so I I could see myself going for a gal that's a bit younger than me, uh, but I wouldn't say too much younger. If she had a guy, then great. If not, I'm I'm more focused on the woman in that aspect, unless something else kind of checks the box boxes. But uh yeah, I just feel that I get along with best and mesh, and I want to be able to be friends with them. So I I really want us to get along and and connect. And that doesn't mean they they couldn't be 22, but it it just seems that they need to be a little closer to my age per se. Uh, and then I connect with them. So I've always felt like I connector connected with people that were about 10 years older than me or something like that. And uh I I the irony is then I'm not sure if I could connect with someone 10 years younger than me yet, but we'll see. I do think we would have fun and it would be interesting to see uh in the future. It'd be great to get together with um some younger, brighter faces, and I just don't know if I can find that in Minnesota yet. I don't know where they're hiding.

Nosy Neighbor. 35:04

Well, if you find them, let me know because I would love to have them as a guest because I I I find it, I mean, I'm up there in age. I think the idea of an older couple with a younger woman kind of showing her what an older couple is like, and having because when you have sex for the first time, for most of us, we don't know what the hell we're doing. Yeah, sex at 18 or 19 is a lot different than sex at 30 and 40. And so to have that kind of mentoring to take in a young that that's a fancy of mine is to have you know to be part of a couple and to take in a younger person and to say, this is how you do it. And if a guy doesn't know what he's doing, find someone else that can learn how to do that.

Megan Ashley 35:47

So to me, that's kind of uh not because they're younger, but because there's that opportunity to kind of shape and show definitely, and that's kind of been my growing and learning experience has been all of this throughout this, and I do see the young girls on chatterbait, and I I sometimes I message or comment or say something to help, or I want to say something, and it is usually that little bit of coaching and that helping to say, you know, take it easy or don't don't take it personal or um try this or you know, don't forget about this and things like that, where you're just so young and innocent, and I still feel so so innocent with my upbringing. There's so much I don't know, and so that's always fun. I'm always learning something new on on cam, but I I can see that it would be very helpful, and uh it is definitely a fantasy that's out there with the the younger and the older, and that makes a lot of sense, and yeah, we could uh we could always see if we can find a younger girl and kind of teach her some things.

Nosy Neighbor. 37:02

And send her my way to talk to her about it.

Megan Ashley 37:05

All right, there we go.

Nosy Neighbor. 37:06

Talking about younger, what would I mean you're on social media, uh, there's a cute picture of you naked, legs open on the couch? What would you,

Younger Self Reactions And Exhibitionism

Nosy Neighbor. 37:18

your younger self, think or say or or feel about seeing something like that and just knowing the confidence that you have now to do that? I mean, it's not everyone has that confidence to put on social media a photo like that, and yet it's a very sexy, cute, lovely picture. What would your younger self think? What was it like to finally get to that level where you could post a photo like that or other stuff that's on your social media and just put it out there for the world? Is there any been has there any been any reflection and saying, wow, how did I get here?

Megan Ashley 37:52

Definitely. I feel like every couple months it kind of hits me. I'm like, what am I doing? Why am I doing this? How did I get here? And at the same time, I post things like that now without thinking. So it to some effect. But I I think I would be slightly shocked, my younger self, but at the same time not too surprised. Uh, a lot of what I have found is that I always had certain thoughts and feelings and things that I wanted to do and explore the things that I'm doing now. And I knew I wanted to show off. I uh had a tiny bit of a dance background, and I knew that I kind of wanted that stage and to show off. And so I am not surprised. I don't think I'd be too surprised that I went down this path. And as I went towards uh college, it became even more apparent because then I did a photography class actually. And the assignment, I don't remember what the assignment was called, but I could not think of any other way for me to explore that specific uh topic. Specific yeah, topic that I was told to do, and it would it was kind of like you know, do something like this, and it needs to go from this to this. And I couldn't think of anything that would work except showing my my body, and so I edited and altered the images and kind of blurred things, but I was mostly naked in that, and then that was seen by all of like even college staff, and that was one of my first, and it's literally called an exhibition. Um so I very quickly learned that I I liked showing off and I was an exhibitionist.

Nosy Neighbor. 39:56

Is there I mean, you're still a young woman, and so much of your stuff is out there. I think it was you that had a tweet where someone commented about masturbating and then realizing, damn it, I I didn't film

Keeping Intimacy Off Camera

Nosy Neighbor. 40:08

it, or something along those lines. I think that was a tweet that you had, maybe of someone else. Is there still moments even by your with your marriage or even by yourself that you get to kind of reclaim your own sexuality where you're able to do stuff either with your husband or solo that is just between you and him, or just between you that you're able to enjoy without thinking, darn it, I should have filmed this. Do you have uh your own little moments that you're still able to enjoy?

Megan Ashley 40:41

Definitely, we do, and I've kind of taken a bit of a break just in this last week or so. Uh, at the same time, I've I got new content I gotta get posted too. But uh, we have many quality moments together where yes, I am sometimes afterwards thinking, well, I should have just recorded that. That was pretty hot. But at the same time, I know that if the camera's on and the light's blaring, that maybe we would feel differently, act a little differently, not explore it all that way, or I don't want him to make it seem like it's not as real. And so it's really, really important for our relationship that we keep that as real as possible and keep that keep some of it between us. And so we do quite often say, you know what, let's turn on the camera, or you know what, let's definitely not turn on the camera. We we need this time together. And uh some nights it's it's a hard choice of do we go online or we kind of just enjoy ourselves together. So it is fun as it is to be online, it's it's very important, of course, to to give that relationship the time it needs and not always be focused on putting more content out there, even if it would be great too. But we do take those times to explore new things on our own together, you know, off-cam. That way, if we do want to do something new and explorative, then we've already done it and we're not doing it for the first time on camera.

Nosy Neighbor. 42:22

Nice. Now I know you said you prefer real penises over the fake stuff, but do they have I asked this of all my guests now? Do you have a go-to toy that you enjoy?

Megan Ashley 42:33

Oh, of

Favorite Toys And Where To Follow

Megan Ashley 42:34

course. Yes. I mean, I love my girlies too, so we gotta have some good dildos or something as well. And I would say, yeah, I have a nice more typical sized dildo that I love. Uh, I also got a really gigantic one that I show off on cam that I do enjoy from time to time. So uh, but I would say my my Domi, the Love Ends vibrator, is one of my best friends to uh go alongside one of the dildos for sure.

Nosy Neighbor. 43:12

Nice. Well, Megan Ashley, I thank you so much for coming on. I will put all the links that uh you provided onto your little blurb here. Is there one particular link that you think fans should go to first to check you out?

Megan Ashley 43:25

Check me out on Fansly. That's where you will see all the good stuff.

Nosy Neighbor. 43:29

All right. Well, Megan Ashley, go check her out and I'll have links included. And thank you for coming on.

Megan Ashley 43:34

Thank you so much.