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What started as a breast augmentation to boost her confidence unexpectedly opened a whole new chapter for Sasha Jo. After posting a few photos online, she found an audience and eventually brought her husband along for the ride.
On this episode of Happening Next Door, Sasha talks candidly about OnlyFans, marriage, motherhood, body confidence, and creating adult content as a couple. She shares how it has strengthened her confidence and spiced up her marriage while still keeping boundaries between content, family, and real life.
Meeting Sasha And Setting The Tone
Nosy Neighbor.My guest this episode is a southern creator from Central Texas who started posting photos and videos online to help pay for a boob job and it really took off from there. Most of her content includes her husband, but she does weekly shows as well. Sasha, thank you so much for coming on.
SashaI'm happy to be here.
Nosy Neighbor.So I must confess when I came across you, I thought you were one of the most beautiful women that I've seen posting content creations online. She is an absolutely gorgeous woman that the photo that will be put up in her her bio will not do her justice. If I had to create the type of woman of the breasts I love, she has them. And so I really encourage fans to check her out. But I wanted to get that out of the way. The full confession that this is as much of a professional interview, I am deep down crushing on her right now. So thank you so much for coming on.
SashaI'm so glad to be here. Thank you for having me.
Nosy Neighbor.Tell us a little bit about your backstory. How long have you been married?
SashaI have been married since 2017. So I've been married for coming on nine years. My husband had four
Marriage, Motherhood, And A Big Leap
Sashachildren with his with a previous wife that kind of were thrown on me overnight and had to kind of like turn into an a mom overnight to four kids. But I was only 22 at the time. So it it definitely is one of those things that um, you know, meeting my husband, I wasn't looking for marriage, but I found it and fell in love with, you know, him and my my kids. You know, I never call them my stepkids, they're my kids. And we have run our own business. It's kind of like an automotive type business. We've run our own business successfully um since we've been married. And um, it's exhausting. And we decided one day we were like, hey, you know, I really want a new set of boobs. And we're like, how are we gonna pay for this? So we took out a little loan and we went and got the boobs done. And I was like, you know, let's let's start, you know, posting on here, you know, little bit, little pictures, you know. I just thought it would be boob boob pictures, and that's all that's as far as it would go. But then it turned into a thing, and you know, 10 followers turned into a hundred, which turned into a thousand. And now it's like sometimes I stop and I'm like, oh my god, I feel like I'm famous sometimes when I look at these numbers, and it's just crazy to think that I started just from posting just pictures of my boobs just to pay for my boobs.
Nosy Neighbor.And what was that initial conversation like between like you and your husband to open yourself up that way to express yourself? I mean, the the breasts are gorgeous. I think you can kind of tell they're fake, but they also have a real good hang to them, and that's what I love about them. But what made you decide not only to get the boobs, was it just self-confidence? What were you looking for in getting the boob job?
SashaMainly self-confidence. And I have one child of my own, and he was breastfed. So the uh boobs were definitely very used and abused by the time he was not being breastfed. And I knew I just kind of always had this idea of having like having bigger boobs would kind of like just complete the look of what I would want to be. And financially, we made it to a point where you know we talked about doing it, and I talked about doing it around a friend of mine who at the time had the money financially, and she went and got it done. And now I was like, okay, well, now she just went and got her boobs done. So now I have to go get mine done. So it it turned into one of those things where we joked about it, and then holy crap, it's we made the appointment and we're going in and talking to a plastic surgeon. And I'm like, I haven't done enough research or looked into this enough to know what to expect, but we were just going in like just all in, just you know, mainly for my self-confidence. But you know, the husband definitely had a little say in what size we we were getting. Um, he opted for the bigger size, of course.
Nosy Neighbor.Of course, and what would you tell women? I mean, the photograph and the money making aside, is it something that you're you're happy you did?
SashaAbsolutely. I mean, it it's definitely, I would say it was probably the best decision I ever made for myself, for my self-confidence. Definitely, you know, my husband definitely looked at me a lot sexier afterwards, you know. He had had these giant boobs that he picked out and he gets to play with them whenever he wants. So it definitely, you know, it it lit another spark in our marriage to where, you know, now we're doing all these things and we started doing, you know, public, you know, flashing and and recording. And we definitely have come a long way in our recording since we first started. But it's it's one of those I would tell somebody if you're on the edge of on the fence of doing it, just do it. Like it is the best decision you could ever make. And hands down, I would do it again and again. If I had to to choose again, I would get them done again.
Nosy Neighbor.The point I'm I think I'm trying to make is that I think we associate a boob job with sexuality and you know, showing them off, but there's a part of you that's saying, Yeah, that was great, the money was great because of these boobs, but also on more of a subconscious level, there was uh an ego boost of more self-confidence that you felt by getting it. And so I think we too often overly sexualize getting a boob job, and you took it to that extreme, but you're also saying there's another element that I think we don't talk about much.
SashaYeah,
Confidence Boost And A Spicier Marriage
Sashayep. It definitely gives you just you know, looking in the mirror, it gives you that little bit of extra confidence and you know, having that voluntuous look that that you feel like you should have, and when you have it, you're like, damn, like I look good. So it definitely, you know, the self-confidence is is definitely one of the biggest aspects. I've always just had this idea of having bigger boobs, like I've always wanted a fuller chest, and I had the opportunity and I went for it, and it was definitely more for me than anything, and I would do it again and again.
Nosy Neighbor.Was there any downside in doing it that you can think of? Something you wish you'd known going into it?
SashaNo, I mean, I had the perfect recovery, I had the perfect surgery, I never had um, never had any issues, never had, you know, any problems healing. I mean, I I had probably the picture perfect breast augmentation that you you could have. Like it was picture perfect start to finish between surgery and the recovery and the final product. Like every I have no complaints.
Nosy Neighbor.So you got the boobs done and now you're posting photographs online. What was that like? Was there kind of a self-discovery? Were you nervous? Was this liberating? And what was the reaction that you started getting back? How did that feel?
SashaWhen I first started, it was definitely very nervous. You know, I've always sent, you know, those kind of pictures to my husband, but to be posting them online for other people to see, and on top of that, captioning any of these freaking posts is like the worst thing to do, having to think up a caption that doesn't make you sound either like is just, you know, I'm 22, I want to fuck your brains out, or doesn't just make you sound like a total bimbo. So making these posts, you know, it already is nerve-wracking to do. So to start making those posts and joining groups and trying to find like my fit in these groups, you know, because there's hundreds and hundreds and thousands of groups out there. And I had to kind of figure out what groups I fit best in and really what kind of pictures fit best, you know, taking just a picture in the bathroom isn't gonna do as well as you're going outside where it's pretty and the lighting is better and taking a picture. So it definitely there was a lot of learning curves between I started figuring out what groups to post in and then figuring out how to do better quality because there is a lot of things that go from just taking a selfie of your boobs in the bathroom to getting a tripod and having lighting and having it at the right angle and having you know all the things going on at the same time. So there's a lot, it's like an art that goes into making content and making posts on Reddit.
Nosy Neighbor.And what was that like realizing kind of taking that next step from just taking simple pictures to now let's make not a career out of it, but more of a hobby where you are investing in lighting, you are investing in the tripods and stuff like that. Was there a discussion with your husband of here's the things we will do, here's the things we're not comfortable doing yet?
SashaI mean, no, it was kind of, you know, he he was helping me run the page originally to help give me an idea of like from a man's perspective, you know, how should I, you know, we've been married for 10 years, I don't really know how to flirt or how to sexy talk. So like tell me if the things I'm doing, if that's you know what guys are we're into. So originally it was just posting the pictures and my my original post that I was selling on OnlyFans was really just boobs. And then people started asking for more. And my husband was like, you know, I'm in I'm good with it if you're good with it. And at first I was like, I don't know, like I feel like that's a really intimate act that I wasn't really comfortable filming at first. And I was like, I don't know, I don't think that I'm comfortable filming and putting that out there. And as the requests kept coming in, and the requests kept coming in, we were like, let's just we're gonna do it. You know, that there's not really a discussion of what we are and aren't comfortable with. It's just, you know, we set the tripod up and we just kind of do what we would do normally, just you try to add a couple little extra looks at the camera, you know, to make it a little better for the viewer. But really, it was just doing the same things that we were doing. We were just recording it. And at first it's a little weird to record and you know, have a big spotlight on you when your camera and trying to, you know, if you're changing positions, you got to check and make sure that you're getting the right angles with the camera. And it's definitely a learning curve.
Nosy Neighbor.And how much of that interaction with the fans do you engage in? Is there a lot of dialogue back and forth that you're you know, you're filling out requests, or are you kind of tuning yourself out and kind of the welcome to our world? You can watch, but we're gonna post what we post. How do you how do you find that right balance?
SashaHonestly, I just my so my page is free. I'm one of those believers that um, you know, if you want to be here, you can be here and buy content, but I don't want people to feel obligated to make like a monthly subscription payment to just to be on my page. So I've always had a pay-per-view page. That's kind of how it started is you know, this is what I'm willing to do. And as my fan base kind of grew, and you know, having five people on a live show to you know, 50 people on a live show, you start getting a lot more people who are willing to ask those riskier questions, like, would you do this for this much money? You know, or my husband would pop in and bring me like a drink on camera, and they'd be like, Oh, well, you know, bring him in, we'll pay this to have him do this. And at first it's like, okay, I'm on the spot and they can see
From Photos To Full Content Craft
Sashamy reactions to this. So I'm like, Yeah, sure, like let's just let's just do it. So we kind of like were put on the spot to bring him into content at first, and he was really nervous to do it. Um, he really, really didn't like being filmed at first. Now it's something I think that he enjoys being filmed sometimes more than not.
Nosy Neighbor.How do you keep that communication open between you and him as far as maybe pushing it too far? If one person wants to go a certain level and the other person is slightly uncomfortable, how do you guys kind of manage that balance doing it as a team and a couple?
SashaI don't think we've ever really had something that we didn't didn't agree on doing. The only thing that I've had people ask that I don't do is video calls, which is something I think that we just kind of both he told me if I wanted to do it, he was okay with it. But it was one of those things we agreed that as long as it's not something that I want to do, that we're okay with not doing it, even though he would be comfortable with it, it's not something that I would feel comfortable doing, if that makes sense.
Nosy Neighbor.Is that just because it's a little bit more personal to have that kind of one-on-one connection with a fan versus here's a live show and anyone can watch?
SashaYeah, and honestly, I'm a very, very busy woman between you know, I have five kids, you know, four of them, three of them are adults, live on their own, but they still pop in out of my house, you know, multiple times a day. So just having to schedule, you know, a specific time to sit down and talk to one person is just not feasible for me. And not it's it's weird having to have a conversation with just one person versus you know, in a room where there's 30 people who could be asking random questions, so you're kind of always talking versus when you're just with one person, it's just like, okay, well, I'm here, what do we talk about?
Nosy Neighbor.And how much of posting and being online? You've been doing it for a while now. You you got the breast to kind of enhance your your own self-esteem. Now you have these men that find you absolutely beautiful, naked or not? How has that been for your self-esteem? And was there a part of you that realized that the boobs weren't the problem, that it was your own internal thinking? I mean, because boobs are not. You're uh the face is a beautiful, you're a beautiful woman. How much of doing this has kind of been a self-discovery of yourself?
SashaIt definitely has, because I wouldn't, you know, my husband, when we walk in in a building, he'll be like, oh, that guy was looking at your ass, or that guy was trying to break his neck looking at you. It's not something I ever would have noticed or been like aware of before. But after the boobs and kind of realizing that I'm an attractive woman because it's not something that, you know, I wouldn't have walked down the street and expected people to look at me, you know, 10 years ago. Whereas now, you know, I I with the kind of attention that I get online, I I notice it more. I look out, I'm kind of on the lookout for it a little more, if that makes sense.
Nosy Neighbor.How do you guys go about protecting yourself? I mean, it's it's still taboo. I mean, you're not doing anything illegal, but it's still viewed taboo these days. You know, is that something that you worry about posting stuff online? Are you relatively careful or do you just say, these are the risks? If I smoke, I know I could get cancer by posting pictures. I know there's a risk that someone might see it. How do you kind of balance those out?
SashaI mean, it's just one of those when we first started, you know, we took into consideration, okay, you know, we're posting something on the internet. Once it's there, it's never gonna go away. But when we originally started doing this, I never thought that I would have such a big following, you know. I didn't have the self-confidence now that I did when I started, or I I don't have the self-confidence. I didn't have the same self-confidence back then, so I never thought that I would turn into such a big hit. So I never thought I'd have, you know, have this many people, you know, interested in me, if that's makes sense.
Nosy Neighbor.I'm trying to figure out did the boobs give you self-confidence, or did the opening yourself up the way that you have give you the self-confidence? Because I would argue that with or without the boobs, uh, you'd be almost equally as successful. Is that something that you consider, or do you put a lot of the emphasis on the boobs are the star of the show?
SashaI mean, in my mind, I would say the boobs is what really started everything. Having the boobs is what gave me the confidence to be naughtier and to take naughty pictures to where we decided to start posting those naughtier pictures. So I definitely say it it weighs heavy on the boobs. I I lean back on the boobs, pretty much started everything. Just getting the boobs gave me the self-confidence to push myself put myself out there more, which pushed me into doing you know content creating that I do now.
Nosy Neighbor.Do you have photos of yourself previous to having the boob jobs? I do, I do someone subscriber could say I'm I'm curious to see because I I think you're underestimating your face and your smile and your eyes, because those are those are tied neck and neck with the boobs, I think.
SashaWell, thank you. That's I appreciate that. What was the question?
Nosy Neighbor.Photos from your past, like someone's subscriber say I'm curious to see before the boob job. I know you weren't impressed with them, but just kind of a before and after. Is there like a set someone could order or say, can I get a couple pictures before and a couple pictures after?
SashaYes, yes. I think it's actually pinned on my main profile. Um, a couple of videos. I don't have any sex videos um with the small boobs, but I do have like videos my husband's taken of me, or videos I've taken, or pictures that I have taken. And you can kind of see the difference in confidence in those pictures and videos from when I had the smaller boobs versus getting the bigger boobs. But there is a one content folder on my OnlyFans that's got pictures of me before getting boobs.
Nosy Neighbor.And how when looking back now, when you look at them, are you you know content with them? Are you kind of disgusted? Uh, how do you view that folder?
SashaLooking at them, I'm just like, oh my god, were they really that were they really that small? Were they really that sad looking? It's kind of the conversation I end up having with my husband. I'm like, were they that bad? And he's like, no, they weren't bad. And I was like, well, they look bad.
Nosy Neighbor.You mentioned that doing this has really kind of enhanced and spiced up your own marriage, but are there times where you guys can can dial it back and not say, you know, we should have recorded this, and have times where you can be intimate with your husband. And how is that different than when you're performing with him on camera?
SashaThere'll be some times where, you know, when we're being intimate, you know, sometimes if I've if I've done my hair and makeup, then we kind of know that we're recording tonight. And there'll be some times where, you know, for if I'm setting the tripod up and obviously it it's set up, like we're setting the mood for recording. But there'll be some times where we'll be, you know, going going at it or getting started, and like he'll reach over to pick up his phone to like record because he likes to record and give people like a his point of view angle. And I'd be like, no, like tonight's just for you, like tonight's just for us. So we we tend to find a good, happy balance of you know, we know that you know, there is intimate times where we don't have to record, and even in some time instances where he is like, Oh, yeah, this would be a good recording moment. I've I've been like, no, this is something where I think it's just better for just the two of us, just you know, to keep it intimate sometimes.
Nosy Neighbor.It's nice to have that balance and to be able to realize that not everything has to be shared. I think we tend to overshare with our social media these days.
SashaExactly, exactly. And honestly, like over the weekends, if we are out of town or like if we have family in town, if we're doing something, um, I'm usually not near as active. Like I tend to not return messages for you know two or three days, especially if I have family in town, just because I don't want to have to be looking over my shoulder to see if somebody can see what I'm doing. So I just, you know, keep keep that part private and I try not to bring it up in times where it's not necessary. And still have you know a social life.
Nosy Neighbor.Is there anything that you've done in in as far as performances and stuff like that that has been self-discovery of your own sexuality? Is there something that you weren't sure that you were into that suddenly you now find yourself into that you weren't before?
SashaYes, I like having sex
Boundaries, Privacy, And Real Life Balance
Sashaoutside, and that's not something that I would have tried before.
Nosy Neighbor.Just because of your own self-esteem, or just because you might get caught?
SashaWell, the thrill of getting caught or maybe the thrill of getting caught, or I mean, it's not something we would have thought to go outside and do. I don't I don't know. I mean the thr the thrill of getting caught, but the confidence of not caring, I guess. You know, making content. I'm like, okay, if somebody catches us, they catch us. Like, who cares at this point?
Nosy Neighbor.And has that translated? I mean, you said you run a business, you have a family and everything like that. Has the confidence that you've found sexually also transferred into just being an everyday woman in your everyday life, not anything sexual, but just how you carry yourself through the world. Has that been a confidence boost too for yourself?
SashaDefinitely, definitely. And I have to say that I also lost a significant amount of weight after I got my boob job done. So I had an even bigger confidence boost from losing the weight and having these gigantic boobs. So um that definitely made it to where I was wanting to wear more riskier things. You know, I went from wearing t shirts to baggy shorts to wearing crop tops and you know, really short shorts because they have these awesome boobs. I lost weight and I felt great. So I definitely say that. I for one, just dress different now than I did on a normal basis, just because I feel more confident in my own skin.
Nosy Neighbor.Doing that now, like you said before, your friend had a boob job. Have you talked to her about what you're doing outside of getting the boob job? Or how do your girlfriends know what you're doing, or how close to the vest have you kept us?
SashaWe started with it really close to us. Um, nobody knew about it. She does know about it. A couple of friends of ours know about it. And actually, my mother and father-in-law know about it. We're really a very, very close family, but they they know about it, they think it's awesome. And honestly, the only person that doesn't like what I do is my mom. She's like, you know, it's your life, it's your body, you do what you want with it, but it's not something that I'm gonna say I'm okay with, but you know, you do you.
Nosy Neighbor.Has there been outlying effect of confidence that people are noticing that you're a different woman than you were five, seven years ago?
SashaOh, yeah, absolutely. I mean, I I carry myself different. I, you know, I'm I'm more loud, I'm okay with being noticed because I'm not, you know, worried about, you know, being, you know, this fat, small boobed person, I guess. I don't know. I guess that's a bad way to put it, but you know, being noticed isn't a big deal because now I guess I know that I'm pretty, whereas back then I didn't think I was pretty, if that's a good way to put it.
Nosy Neighbor.I wish I could see these pictures because I don't know where you're getting that from, but I will take your word on it. You had mentioned like your friends and stuff like that. Has there been a lot of pressure to bring others in? I mean, you brought your husband in. Has there been pressure to bring other females, men? Has there been a lot of requests for that? And how do you balance that, or is that just something that that's the fine line?
SashaUm, I mean, I've gotten requests for it, or people ask, you know, you know, do you do any girl on girl content, or are you, you know, do any swinging or anything like that? And our kids actually joke all the time that they think that we're swingers with our two closest friends, and we're definitely not. I mean, they know about everything that we have going on, but we've just never never been interested in adding that aspect to our content or sex life.
Nosy Neighbor.And I think that's one of the things that interests me and you, other than you being adorably cute. But I think there's a lot of assumptions that, oh, she does stuff online. Well, she does it with multiple men, she does it with multiple women, she, you know, is out there, they're swinging. I mean, there's a lot of assumptions that kind of open the floodgates when you hear that you're uh an adult content creator, and really what you've done from the sounds of it is really just brought it into the marriage and found that it enhanced your mental well-being as well as your marriage without necessarily taking the steps that other people just kind of assume that you would have taken.
SashaExactly. I mean, we're doing all the same things aside from you know, doing, you know, setting time aside to do a show once a week and you know, having to buy certain things. We're really just added a tripod and a camera to what we were already doing and just made it look better. But I mean, it's already stuff that we were we were doing, you know, we're basically just filming us having sex, but we've already been doing that, just giving everybody a chance to look at it. But it's it's definitely an eye-opener from our aspect that, you know, something like this that we were like, oh, let's just pay for the boobs with this. You know, we only needed seven grand, and now we've, you know, it's it's a big part of our lifestyle. I mean, I wouldn't say, you know, it is our career, but it it plays a big part in things we do and trips that we plan. We do plan things around being able to get and make content when we go places. Because I mean, you you have to in this in this kind of you know environment, you have to take advantage. You know, if you're going somewhere where you're gonna be in the mountains, well, you've got to find a way to take pictures in the mountains that are dirty. Like it's just it's a have to kind of thing. But you can also choose to go in the mountains, take those pictures, and then go about, you know, doing your own personal time without without working and doing content.
Nosy Neighbor.So the key is to finding that right life balance that you're still making creations, but you're also finding time to have the marriage where you're still being private there, but also live a life and and do those things.
SashaExactly. I basically once a week I have a show on my OnlyFans, and I also on a separate day of the week, obviously, have all five of my kids over for dinner. Well, have the other four over. One lives with us, but have everybody over for dinner also once a week. So we live a really busy life.
Nosy Neighbor.So for people that want to check you out, and I highly recommend that they do, where are the sites that you're on?
SashaI'm on Fansly and OnlyFans. Fansly is kind of honestly, the Fansly platform is a lot harder to navigate. So I
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Sashadon't have a big following and a lot of content on there. But once I start uploading my content to Fansly, it'll be the same content that's on my OnlyFans. Um, but that's those only two platforms to follow me. Um, but my name is the same on both of them. It's Sasha underscore Joe94.
Nosy Neighbor.And what can people find or expect to find on the OnlyFans? There's the pay-per-view wall, but there's also the free content. Tell us a little bit of the content that they can find there.
SashaUm, a lot of it is like I'll upload pictures or videos of me, like just doing normal daily stuff. Like sometimes I'll be out feeding the horses or messing with the chickens, and I'll upload like a picture of me feeding the horses. And you know, I'm not naked, but I'm in like you know, uh crop top and booty shorts kind of stuff. So it's kind of gives you a illicit view of what you can expect without giving it all away at first. And like on my Reddit, you won't find any pictures of my vagina on my Reddit, and like I try to keep that on lockdown. You gotta pay to see that.
Nosy Neighbor.Highly suggest you check out her Reddit page as well as the OnlyFans. But yeah, that was one thing I did notice that you don't uh go below the bell. I mean, you're naked in some of them, but legs are strategically placed. But I'm telling you guys, the face and the boob combination is one of the favorite that I've seen out of almost all the guests I've interviewed. And that smile alone, boobs or not, is worth checking out. What would you tell a younger couple? Any setbacks, things to worry about or to plan about, any surprises that you've guys found?
SashaNo, just make sure that you are comfortable and what you're comfortable doing, you know, set boundaries. I mean, we we really didn't have any boundaries to set because I mean we were just kind of doing what we were already doing. But, you know, if it's something that you're thinking about doing, just have those conversations and get the hard conversations out of the way first. Because once you get the hard conversations out of the way, you can really just get started and you know, get get to making it, but just be open and listen, listen to your spouse and listen to their concerns and what they think, and make sure that ultimately all the decisions you make you include your spouse in, and just make sure it's stuff that you know you guys are comfortable with doing with each other, but also doing you know, for everybody to see.
Nosy Neighbor.And one of the things I would suggest to people, and I I don't know what of these you've done or not, and if you agree or not, but realize that you are doing something that is taboo and frowned upon by some. Um, make sure that you're putting a wall up. You know, don't you I would suggest getting a different phone to set up a whole new email account, to set up a whole like I don't know if you have an Amazon wish list, but set up a whole different Amazon a whole different cash app, different Venmo.
SashaI mean, you have to basically create a whole different identity to separate yourself, and then that's what I have a different email. Everything goes, you know. I have a phone that's that I have all my accounts on, but I have my accounts on my personal phone too, because it's easier to carry one phone than two all the time. But definitely you you know keep everything separate. I mean, that that's the best way to do it.
Nosy Neighbor.I think a lot of people don't realize we joke about it, but like how many times have you gone online looking for something and then suddenly you start seeing ads for it? And this this metadata you know picks up on things and recommends friends based on, and so you really want to kind of separate the two lives, and almost to the effect of having an affair where you're you're separating that person and you're you're living a secret life by using other devices, other emails, and stuff like that, because you don't know where the meta and the online stuff is gonna suggest, you know, hey, check out this person, but she might be a good friend, and you're like, that's my cousin that you're suggesting checking out my my online presence.
SashaSo right.
Nosy Neighbor.Anything else you would tell a young couple that are thinking about doing this, what what would you say that are the first couple baby steps that they should take rather than if they're not ready to jump in and fully do shows and and all that stuff weekly? What are some of the baby steps that you would recommend?
SashaI would just start with uh start recording, you know, just put put the phone up in the corner of the room. You know, it doesn't have to be the best angle, it doesn't have to be the best lighting, just put a put the phone up and watch it together later and you know take suggestions from the other, like, okay, well, what do you think we could do to make this look better? And then you just kind of work together. And, you know, I always lean on my husband for opinions because I mean ultimately it's what the man wants that we're aiming for. So, you know, I lean a lot on him for support and you know, help me decide on what I need to do. But, you know, lean on the other person and make sure that, you know, you know, take their opinions into consideration and make sure that you're just you're doing everything with what each other's comfort level is. But I would just start with put a phone, put your camera up in the corner of the room and just kind of go from there. You can adjust and do better, you know, change your lighting, change your angles as you see fit. Or if not, I mean, from the corner of the room is fine too. It doesn't have to have a a tripod with a light and be at a certain angle. You don't have to have all the fancy stuff to make good content.
Nosy Neighbor.And I think, and not to stroke your ego even more than I have already tonight, but I think one of the things that you do well is there's a genuineness to your post. Uh, not everything that you post is a glamour shot where the lighting is perfect. The st there's times where you're flashing at Lowe's. And there is kind of a fun personality in that photo beyond the boobs and the smile, there's kind of a acute silliness to some of your pictures because it's genuine. We've all been at Lowe's, we've all been at Home Depot, and so what I think you do really well is have that kind of genuine moments versus kind of a stage setup in the bedroom where the bed is perfectly made and the lighting is perfect, and the you know, the camera shot is perfect. Yeah, there's those there too, but some of it's just being silly in the car, and I think that gives a personality that men can also appreciate and love, and that's what makes guys want to follow you.
SashaExactly. And there's too many, there's too many robots out there when it comes down to it. Too many robots or automated pages, or honestly, people who don't speak the same language and their messages come off all like gibber jabbery because they don't they're you're not speaking the same language. So it um that's really that that's what I we we aim to do is just bring genuine content. Um, I'm not trying to be anybody other than the person that I am. You know, there's a lot of times I'll do a show and I'll just throw some makeup on and brush my hair. I mean, I won't I try to take the time to do my hair and makeup before every show, but I mean, I'm a real person and sometimes, you know, I get home from a baseball game and I've got to go and throw myself together so I can make it to my my show. I'm not gonna be, you know, all prim and proper and prissy. I'm gonna be, you know, running in from a baseball game.
Nosy Neighbor.And finally wrapping things up, and I appreciate coming on. I know that you were a little nervous, and I hope this was fun for
Toys, Future Plans, And Final Thoughts
Nosy Neighbor.you or at least comfortable and enjoyable for you. Uh one of the things they asked all my guests is what is your favorite, other than your husband, what is your favorite go-to toy that you use?
SashaHmm, you know, I would usually say I don't even know what it's called. It's I got it off of Amazon. If I were to look it up, I would search it by purple thrusting sucking toy. It's got like it's got like a penetrating part, and the penetrating part vibrates, but then it has like a part that stimulates your clit too. But I also recently have gotten the rose, and I know there's a lot of conflicting reviews about the rose, but I have to say that other than using the rose so much that my vagina will soar for 24 hours, I think it's pretty freaking amazing.
Nosy Neighbor.Nice. And final question what it does the future hold for you? I mean, what level do you see yourself doing this? Do you see yourself growing and doing it more? Is this still gonna remain a hobby? Have you talked about you know the degree that you're gonna take it to or just kind of ride it out and see what happens?
SashaI mean, we're just we're taking it day by day. Um, I mean, we don't have we don't have a big plan of like, okay, six months from now, what what are we gonna be doing? It's day by day. If there are times where, you know, I need to work a little harder because we need a little, we need to make a little more that week, then obviously I'll grind a little bit harder. But for the most part, we're just you know, I do my weekly shows and we just record, you know, not every time we do it, but we record, you know, a couple times a week. Yeah, I mean, we were just keeping it day by day, just doing the same things we're doing, and we don't have any plans to do anything different, if that makes sense.
Nosy Neighbor.I think the key is that you're having fun with it still.
SashaExactly. We're we're having fun, we're not doing anything outside of our comfort zone, or it's not, you know, requiring anything extra from either of us, you know, to where it takes away from our family or our marriage. So, you know, we have a really good, happy balance with where we are right now. Obviously, I know that if I wanted to make more, you know, if I wanted to work twice as hard, I could make twice as much, but that would also take time away from the business that we have that has employees that rely on us, you know, to pay their bills, but it would take time away from my family and my marriage. And we're just not at a point where you know, I don't want to do OnlyFans full time. That's just not where I see myself.
Nosy Neighbor.Interesting. Well, Sasha, thank you so much for coming on. It's been a pure pleasure, both from a professional and uh closeted fan to see you. Like I said, check her out on Reddit and then check out her OnlyFans. Just an absolutely gorgeous face, smile, and those boobs are to die for. Husband is a very, very lucky man. But go check out her page, be respectful, and show her some love and support. And thank you so much for coming on.
SashaAwesome. I really appreciate you having me. Thank you so much.