Rachel Ramsey Background And Pivot

Nosy Neighbor. 0:12

My guest this episode is the lovely adult film performer and professional courtesan Rachel Ramsey. Rachel, thank you for joining us today. Of course. So tell us a little bit about yourself without giving too much away where are you from and a little bit about your upbringing?

Rachel Ramsey 0:30

Uh so I'm from California. I moved around a lot as a kid though, but mainly like Central Coast California. Yeah, I was an actress for a few years, about 20 years in uh mainstream film and TV.

Nosy Neighbor. 0:48

And what made you just switch to adult film work?

Rachel Ramsey 0:52

Money. There's uh really not much money in low budget horror films, you know, hence hence low budget. Yeah, and I kind of just always liked sex. I liked being filmed during sex and I like acting. So I was like, you know, just can combine all of those and see what happens, and it's been pretty fun so far.

Sex As Performance And Pleasure

Nosy Neighbor. 1:15

And what was it like? I mean, I assume before you started in the adult film industry, you had sex before, but having sex as just a regular relationship versus a performance where the sex is often kind of heightened or a little bit more extreme, what was that like going from one to transitioning to the other, or wasn't it a big jump for you at all?

Rachel Ramsey 1:39

I guess it wasn't really like a huge jump. I was kind of in the lifestyle scene a little bit. So, you know, went to some some sex parties and stuff, and I feel like those are a little bit performative, because you know, you're around a lot of people having sex and you're having sex with a lot of people, and yeah. So, and I've always kind of just been like sexually adventurous, I guess, even in my personal life.

Nosy Neighbor. 2:08

So, and what is it that you enjoy? Just the sensation, the interaction, the the body movements working together. What is it that that draws you to our or just the flat out fun?

Rachel Ramsey 2:20

I don't know. I really enjoy like getting guys off, honestly. I it's fun for me. And like in my personal life, I like to see like how fast I can make a guy come. I think that's that's pretty fun. Can't really do that in on porn because you know they want them to last a certain amount of time, so it's kind of bad if they come too soon.

Nosy Neighbor. 2:42

When you're swinging, there is an element of I guess lust involved. You are performing, but you are, you know, there is no pause or cut, or you know, like you said, the staging of things is a little bit different. Is that more enjoyable when versus when you're on a set and you know the guy comes too early or you have to stop and wait or reset, you know, you're not getting that kind of pleasure that you would have if you were swinging with that person. Is there any is that something that's a downside to the adult industry?

Rachel Ramsey 3:17

Uh, I mean, I think they're just like different, you know, different sides of the same coin, I guess. I enjoy being on set just because as from coming as an actress, that's fun for me. So I enjoy being on a porn set, you know, and I enjoy sex in my personal life with just one person or with a few people. I just enjoy sex in all its many forms.

Nosy Neighbor. 3:43

And

OnlyFans Connection Versus Free Porn

Nosy Neighbor. 3:43

where, I mean, you've been doing for a few years now. Where do you see the adult industry as far as I mean, it used to be if you were in a video or you had a performance that, you know, you know, I think you did one called Dommy Stepmommy. In order for me to see that, I would have to go to like a certain bookstore, go in the back of the room and find your video and purchase it. Now so much of it is out there online and a lot of it's free. I mean, I can Google your name and find you know hours worth of your content and watch it without paying a dime. Is that something you know? How do we put that genie back in the bottle? Is having all the free stuff out there a necessity to help get your name out there? How do you view that?

Rachel Ramsey 4:30

I mean, I think that in the end, like the personal connection, it's what's gonna be worth it to some people, you know. I think that's why people grab towards towards like OF or Sex Panther, because like, you know, you get that like personal connection with someone um that you don't can't get just like watching their video for free. So, you know, like I mean, I believe in actually chatting with my people on my sites. So I don't I don't use chatters and I don't plan on doing it. So I think that's what eventually like people will gravitate towards more, especially like with AI and all that, if they realize they're actually talking to a real person, not you know, not a robot, I think that's where uh where it's headed or where I hope it's headed anyway.

Nosy Neighbor. 5:24

And you think there's almost like a bounce back or overcorrection in men? Because I think after COVID, I think a lot of men were drawn towards the women of like OnlyFans, where you had some professionals, but a lot of amateurs, but there really was an emphasis on that human connection. Yeah, and it became where it didn't matter if it was a mom of three or a professional, to have that ability to kind of interact and talk to them and have more of a personal, you know, connection with them, uh seems to be something that's growing. And AI, it's it's getting better with I mean, you there are now women. I mean, I have to be careful when I'm booking people to kind of figure out, you know, is this really a real person that I'm you know stumbled across, or is it yeah, AI? And it's kind of scary.

Rachel Ramsey 6:17

Yeah. I mean, you know, in the end, however a guy wants to get his rocks off, you know, whatever. Um, I mean, I've never paid for porrid myself. So I get the, you know, the not wanting to pay for it, sure. But I feel like, you know, if you're on a site where you do know you have to pay for it, you know, don't expect things for free. But and I think that like the the reason why a lot of women do do chatters is because some men think that like, you know, they can talk to you for hours at a time, you know, and expect an immediate response and all that. I think you just kind of have to train guys to know that like I have a personal life, I have a real life as well. If if I'm gonna be chatting to you and it's gonna be actually me, you have to know that I'm not always gonna be online 24-7.

Nosy Neighbor. 7:13

So

AI Chatters And Fan Expectations

Nosy Neighbor. 7:13

um and you most of you won't get that, or is there a a process that you have to kind of constantly go through to say, you know, you are tying up my time? I'm not here just for you for fora. How do you go about that without losing that without sounding rude or like you're not interested in the fan? How do you go about doing that?

Rachel Ramsey 7:33

Um, I haven't had a huge problem with it yet. I mean, I think they they recognize the fact that it is actually me responding, and usually they're pretty, pretty good with my time, you know. Sometimes I do feel bad if I don't respond for like a day or something, but also, you know, they're not paying for me for each each message. It's kind of why I like Sex Panther, because you know, they do pay you for each message, but yeah.

Nosy Neighbor. 8:00

Is

Social Media Bans And Marketing Burnout

Nosy Neighbor. 8:00

there any because you've reached a point in your your stardom or your career? Is it hard to? I mean, it almost feels like you have to constantly advertise, you're constantly putting yourself out there, you're constantly saying, you know, check my page out or check this out. Does it get it to a point where you just kind of wish that you could go and be Rachel Ramsey, the woman shopping at the grocery store where you don't have to show off a picture of you in cleavage or stuff like that?

Rachel Ramsey 8:33

Honestly, like I'm not super good about marketing myself, especially on like social media. I guess I'm better on X, but I just use kind of like old pictures and stuff. But um, I'm I'm pretty bad with Instagram and also my first Instagram got taken down, so I felt a little defeated after that. Because they're just after us on Instagram, man. They don't they don't want us on there.

Nosy Neighbor. 8:59

And even X, X can be very you could be just a regular person that likes posting sexy pics, but once you put up that you're a courtesan or you're some you know in the industry, then they get all kind of goofy. Whereas if you're just a mom like posting pictures of herself naked, that doesn't seem to bother them as much.

Rachel Ramsey 9:19

And so Yeah, I mean, knock on wood, I haven't had a problem with X yet. I mean, uh I guess I did post a picture and say something about a chicken ranch, and they like suspended me for like 40, 24 hours or something. And I was like, okay, cool. But yeah, for the most part, like X hasn't been hasn't gone. I don't I don't think I'm like shadow banned or anything on there. Um, but I think you just also have to set your settings correctly, you know, that you say that you do not say for content and all that. And at least there's that option on X, whereas, you know, Instagram and Twitter and uh TikTok, there's not. You know, even if you set your page to 18 and over, they still like you know, get you for certain things. And my first Instagram got taken down for like no reason. I didn't do anything on there. But my my site was very vanilla, and like I just posted pictures from like hiking and going to the beach. So I don't know why I got deleted, but I did.

Nosy Neighbor. 10:21

Yeah, they never really tell you those things.

Rachel Ramsey 10:23

No, and they just do it. There's no there's no, hey, we're gonna investigate this. They just delete it and then just say they say fuck off. Like, cool, thanks.

Casting Process And Hard Boundaries

Nosy Neighbor. 10:35

You were an actress before, and I'm sure you've auditioned for roles and stuff like that. In the adult industry, can you go through a little bit about what the process is to to finding a role or getting cast in a role?

Rachel Ramsey 10:47

Uh so all of the you know, mainstream porn gangs I've gotten have been through my agent. Yeah, I I just use them for those. They just call you up and say, Hey, are you available this day, or I've already booked you for this day, or whatever? And you say, Okay, great, sounds good. And then, you know, they'll give you the call sheet like the day before. And I I love being told where to go and what to do and what day to be there, and that works well for me. I'm not super good about working for myself, but I'm I'm trying to get better at it.

Nosy Neighbor. 11:21

And then do basically your people have a list of your do's and don'ts, and as long as the role fits that, you just pretty much say, I'll be there.

Rachel Ramsey 11:30

Yeah, yeah, pretty much. I mean, like I think they know the people who do the super, you know, fetishy stuff. I'm not really into that world too much, but um, I have had to tell them a couple of times that I don't do women. Because that's um unheard of. A straight female in porn is um is is rare. So I've had to remind them a couple of times that I that I don't do vagina.

Nosy Neighbor. 12:01

And just playing devil's advocate, you know, why is that? I mean, you're a performer, you're you're not uh middle-aged housewife, you know, interacting with your husband. It's an actor that you're at. Why why the line there when you it is a performance?

Rachel Ramsey 12:18

Because I'm straight. I don't I don't like vagina. So yeah. I am too old to be talked into doing things I don't want to do.

Nosy Neighbor. 12:31

There you go. It's always good that you have. I mean, how much say do you I because I would assume the porn industry, I mean, there's the talents out there, but at the same time, you know, we'll find another blonde that can suck cock. Is there a lot of fear to try things other than vagina in your case that or to be open to things out of fear that you might not get the role if you don't? Or are you passed that way you don't worry about it?

Rachel Ramsey 13:00

Not for me. Like I'm pretty open with you know my do's and don'ts. And and I like I said, like I think that like if it's a super fetishy shoot, they're gonna go for people who they already know and they know are into doing those things. You know, I've I've been asked if I'll do like pee and stuff like that. I'm like, no, it's not really my thing. Um, or scat, again, not my thing. Double anal, not my thing. And they respect your they respect it. You know, the porn industry has consent is a very big part of it.

Nosy Neighbor. 13:36

So

Creativity Gaps And Age Labels

Nosy Neighbor. 13:37

and do you see much evolution in porn? I mean, it seems nowadays any porn site you go to, it's stepmom with stepson, or you know, stepmom with stepdaughter, and cases like that. Do you see new things coming out or trying new things, or were you knowing?

Rachel Ramsey 13:57

I mean, I think I think that's where the people doing their own content um comes in. You know, I like I I work with this guy AJ Fresh a lot, and he does a lot of his you know own stuff. He has like an angel series, and he has a hellfire series, and he uh, you know, so I think that people doing their own content, that's where they get to be a little bit more creative. In mainstream porn, it is, you know, it is a lot of a lot of step stuff for sure. I mean, even even that I have fun with. I enjoy a scenario because I get to act a little bit. So being a stepmom is kind of fun for me. I played a nun once, that was also fun.

Nosy Neighbor. 14:42

So is I mean, if if we had Rachel Ramsey, the producer or studio head of a porn studio, and you were looking to cast yourself in something, what would be like the perfect role or the perfect what it what is a role that just gets you excited to go into the studio?

Rachel Ramsey 15:03

Well, I've always been drawn towards horror films. That'd be fun to see some more horror porn, like uh vampire or succubus or something like that. It would always be fun. I like playing evil and bitchy.

Nosy Neighbor. 15:20

You like playing evil and bitchy, and you had fun playing a nun. Your definition of fun is a little bit different than mine.

Rachel Ramsey 15:29

I mean, they're all you know, I I just like doing different parts and and getting my my acting out in the process, you know.

Nosy Neighbor. 15:39

Is there anything that you haven't tried yet that you would love to try that you're just waiting for someone to to cast you in? A role, a scene, a scenario?

Rachel Ramsey 15:48

I'm I'm into submissive type stuff, and I haven't done a whole lot of that on mainstream shoots yet, so that would be kind of fun to explore.

Nosy Neighbor. 15:58

So submissive, but not to the extreme, because you mentioned that those yeah, not super, super extreme.

Rachel Ramsey 16:05

I guess you know, 50 Shades of Gray, submissive if that exists. I don't like actual pain.

Nosy Neighbor. 16:15

And so now you've been doing this for a few years. I don't know, and I'm not trying to dig into your relationship status or anything like that, but a day on the set versus an afternoon with a significant uh other or a boyfriend or whatnot, what are the two Ramseys, Rachel Ramsey's like? Is there a difference? Is it basically the same, or is one an actor performing and one in a relationship?

Rachel Ramsey 16:41

Well, I haven't been in a relationship in a while. I mean, I try and just be myself and in whatever thing I'm in and just be easygoing and on set, you know, I know it is still a job, but it's also a job we get to have fun with. So I think if if you're doing porn and you're not having fun, you're doing something wrong. And I think if you're having sex in your personal life and you're not having fun, you're doing something wrong. So yeah, just I just try to have fun no matter what.

Nosy Neighbor. 17:10

And if you were a studio head, what do you think we need more of out there as far as because there's there's so many porn categories, there's so many porn themes. You know, we talked about the son-in-law and the stepmom or whatnot. What do you think we're missing, or what is uh a niche that you think we should use more of this?

Rachel Ramsey 17:31

I mean, I think that in for women, there seems to be, you know, the two categories mainly. It's teen and it's MILF. And I in real life, obviously, there are women between the ages of 20 and 35 that fuck. So why are there only two categories for women and porn? It's kind of annoying, and then it's also kind of annoying that when you actually are of MILF age that you have the women who are now 27 being put into MILF rolls because that's the only thing that there is. There's teen or there's MILF. And once you're not a teen, you take start taking the MILF rolls. I'm like, well, there has to be some other scenes and scenarios and involve real women in between those ages. So I think that's kind of what's missing.

Nosy Neighbor. 18:24

It is interesting. I mean, you never see a porn on a couple going out on a date in their you know, 30s and just meeting a guy and hooking up and having sex. It's always like you said, the MILF or the younger girl. There's no real storylines, you know, of just a couple on a date or a couple doing this, or guy and a girl are in a bar. I mean, it's just yeah, you're right. It's just younger or MILF.

Rachel Ramsey 18:51

Or I mean, there's also there's, you know, I guess there's tattooed is another category, or babe, when you're, you know, got the big tits and ass and stuff. That's I guess suppose that's a category as well. But but yeah, I mean, there's just like I said, there's people between the ages of 20 and 35 that fuck in real life. So I don't know why they can't repres be represented in porn as well.

Nosy Neighbor. 19:12

One of the things I've discovered is a site called Erstes, it's a German site, and they they've gotten very creative in the stuff that they do and the content that they do, and it just to me it's almost refreshing. Or they'll do they'll I and I I don't know how much of it is staged because you have to have you know consent and all that stuff to film stuff, but they'll do like uh an episode, like a tint of Tinder, where the girl will go through and do that kind of stuff, and there just seems to be uh some creative stuff out there that people are trying, and I think you mentioned it before the OnlyFans really allows people to kind of break that niche and and find ways to be creative.

The Appeal Of Intimate Solo Videos

Nosy Neighbor. 19:54

One of the things I like about your videos is you had several that I found on uh Pornhub that were just solo videos, and I found those very interesting because it almost felt like when I when I watched it and doing research, of course, it almost felt like you were doing it for me. There was like a solo shower scene where it's just there was no talking, there was no dialogue, it was just and you kept on looking at the camera, and I found that very appealing that you did that. And you've done a couple of videos like that that at least I came across, I'm sure there's others, but that was one of the things that I noticed about your videos was there's several that was just it almost seems like a personal performance. I don't know where they got it from, if it came off of like an OnlyFans or whatnot, but I really enjoyed it.

Rachel Ramsey 20:39

Oh, yeah, I I posted it on Pornhub, yeah.

Nosy Neighbor. 20:42

I really enjoyed that just because it felt like you were recording just for me, and you didn't have to say anything, but it's just quiet, there was no music, and it was just you in the shower, and I thought that was very sometimes it's nice just to be quiet and watch, and so yeah, the voir and stick kind of thing. Yep, and you did some masturbation ones where it just it just felt like uh a private performance, and I like that. And you do other stuff, there was other much other content. There's a great shot, and I forget if this was a porn hub or not, but an overhead shot of you that is just and I don't know if you know the one I'm talking about, but it's almost like a beautiful artful shot, even though it's you naked, there's a just a beautiful overhead shot. So I really in doing research on you, just research, I really enjoyed seeing some of your stuff and kind of the different avenues that you you did things, and so I thought that was kind of I don't want to say refreshing because it wasn't anything new, new, uh but it really it felt like a more connection, it felt like you were sending me something that was private or personal, even though it is viewed by you know hundreds or thousands of people.

Rachel Ramsey 21:54

Well, I appreciate that.

Why She Became A Courtesan

Nosy Neighbor. 21:56

So you're doing the the mainstream stuff and you're doing the acting and stuff like that. Why take the leap to Courtesan?

Rachel Ramsey 22:06

You know, again exploring different ways to make some money, and uh eventually I'd like To save up enough to maybe buy a house. And I live in LA, so I gotta uh I gotta save up a lot of money. And uh being a Cortisan uh seems like a good way to go about it, I guess.

Nosy Neighbor. 22:25

And what was the the thought process? Because at least in porn, for the most part, there's not a lot of ugly guys. Uh you get to choose your roles or at least accept your roles. When you're swinging, you're meeting the people and getting to know, and you're giving consent there. But with a brothel, you know, a trucker comes in after a long day driving this truck, and he's a big guy like me, and he comes in and says, I want to select you. You're, you know, you're kind of stuck with doing that. You you lose a little bit of that personal choice, and you can always reject someone, but you know, is that a different mindset of being open and willing? And is it just the love of sex that allows you to do that?

Rachel Ramsey 23:06

Yeah, I mean, it's I mean, also it's like, are they gonna be able to afford it is is another thing. But um, you know, we we charge a charge a pretty penny at at the ranch. But I think for me, it's you know, giving an experience to someone that might have a problem otherwise having that experience, or maybe it's just easier for them to do that, or you know, for whatever reason they they go there, you know, that's their own personal choice, no personal reason, you know, and providing a nice luxury service. And I think that like I also like to get to know new people and you know have chats with all kinds of people. I I moved around a lot as a kid, so I think um I'm pretty good at talking with people and yeah, I like giving them an experience.

Nosy Neighbor. 23:59

One of the things that I am intrigued by, but also nervous by, is you're not allowed to discuss pricing. We we can't discuss it here, we can't we can't even really, you know, beat around the bush and and do things. Is that a hindrance? Or because I would like I'm a guy from Minnesota. Uh let's say I was attracted to uh I am, but but let's just say I am attracted to you, I want to go visit you. I would almost be embarrassed because I would have no earthly clue of what to suggest or what to to as far as payment. Is that a hindrance that you can't? Yeah, I mean, there's there's no ifs, ands, or buts. You can't talk about it. I can't email you privately and say, Hey, can you just give me a hint? You can I mean we we can get like a budget, we can ask the the client what budget are you thinking of, and then we can say, Oh, it would be twice that, or you'd have to add another zero to that, or you know, yeah, we can't there is a little bit of we because I just I and I almost wonder, does that turn people off because they don't because like I wouldn't want to offend you, but I also don't want to say I'll pay you 20,000 for you know a hand job because that would probably be great for you, but I take it, but it would be kind of outrageous as far as the scheme of things, and so does that does that lose customers too because they they don't want to offend you and and say something, you know, how about you know ten dollars? You don't you don't want to offend anyone? Is that a hard thing, or do people understand that?

Rachel Ramsey 25:36

Or how does that I mean I think the hard thing is that yeah, people don't really realize that we can't say a number ourselves. I mean, we can give it a ballpark once, yeah. It's it is it is a hindrance and it is annoying, especially when you know they're emailing you from you know the the chicken ranch website. It's like why why can't we? But you know, if laws are laws, I suppose. So yeah, it is a little irksome, but you know, just try and work it around it as best you can.

Nosy Neighbor. 26:07

I just I just wonder how many more people would do it if there was a sign that said, you know, blowjob is X amount, sex is X amount. Yeah.

Rachel Ramsey 26:17

Well also we're independent contractors, so true.

Nosy Neighbor. 26:20

So everyone is different.

Rachel Ramsey 26:22

Yeah.

Nosy Neighbor. 26:22

But you're not, I mean, my understanding, and you're not even supposed to discuss it with others, correct?

Rachel Ramsey 26:30

Uh, like with the other girls?

Nosy Neighbor. 26:32

Yeah.

Rachel Ramsey 26:32

Uh, I mean, not really. I mean, we'll kind of discuss it a little bit, but yeah, not you know, let's say, oh, I charge this, you know.

Inside The Chicken Ranch Routine

Nosy Neighbor. 26:41

Why the chicken ranch? Was there anything in particular that drew you to that versus one of the other ranches?

Rachel Ramsey 26:47

Or was it um I had a friend who was already working there, so she kind of helped me get into it.

Nosy Neighbor. 26:54

And what was that like? You're because what happens for those that don't know is you usually sign up for a couple weeks. You come down from wherever you are, you you're basically renting a room there, and you're an independent contractor renting out a room uh and doing it, and then you go back home for a while, and you can come back, or you can stay longer. What was that like? Kind of your first trip. Was it exciting because you had done the swinging and kind of were used to not necessarily total strangers, but swinging is often kind of a communal event, so it wasn't a stretch to go from swinging to to Corzin. It it just with one person. What was that like? And is it you know what you hoped it was? Was there any surprises for you?

Rachel Ramsey 27:39

Yeah, it was my first tour, it was good. It was I was kind of just learning the ropes. I was there for two weeks, my first tour, and my friend was there the whole time, so that was cool. We got to hang out and did some reels together. Most of the time, you're just it's a lot of downtime. It's a lot of downtime. So you're just trying to find ways to you know entertain yourself.

Nosy Neighbor. 28:04

I hate reducing it to this, but it almost feels like a car dealership where you're you pull up in your car because you're looking at new cars, and 20 salespeople come out wanting you to select them to be your their car salesman. Is there a lot of competition with the women? How do you I mean, is it it almost sounds like there'd be a lot of kind of backstabbing and because you one guy comes in and there's 20 girls?

Rachel Ramsey 28:31

It's well, it also depends on how they're choosing you. So there's a few different ways that you can be, you know, chosen by a gentleman. They can do a lineup, which is kind of what you're talking about, where we all come out and just you stand in a line and you know say hi and say your name, and and then they just pick a girl from that, or they can, you know, go on the website and talk to you ahead of time and make an appointment, or they can sit down in the bar and there's a screen in the bar that the pictures rotate and they can pick from that and then have you come to the bar and and then take go back to their room and talk. So I I mean, I don't think there's a lot of competition necessarily. Yeah, I mean, you know, I think that like everyone is there to do a job, but we're you know, we all know that like there's money to go around and yeah, I mean I didn't get too too competition-y vibes from any of the the ladies there. They were all pretty nice, and a lot of them just kind of keep to themselves for the most part, um, which I I tend to go out of my room more often than other people do. I just can't be in my room the entire time.

Nosy Neighbor. 29:43

But I look at myself and think I would make a horrible person to go visit a courtesan uh just because I'm finicky and picky, and I know you know what kind of breasts I like, or I know what kind of this or that I like, or you know, how much tattoos are tolerable, and because I'm not a big overly tattoo guy. Uh you have some on your back, I believe, and a couple, but you're not when you glance at you, you don't think, wow, she's tattooed, you know, all over the place. Like some yours are like the back, and I think you have some on your arm and stuff like that, but it's not overwhelming. Do you find guys that come in? Do they come in kind of having a mental girl in mind already that they just didn't know it yet that they're looking for she's the one I want? Or are guys that come in usually just more open and I'm looking for a girl with a personality and I'm gonna meet her at the bar and select one?

Rachel Ramsey 30:38

I mean, I think it just depends on the guy. Um, some probably have already looked at the website before they come in, maybe. Yeah, some, you know, they're not sure what they want, so they do the lineup to try and get a vibe, but it's really hard to get a vibe from the lineup because we're just a we just go out, we say hi, and then we literally say, Okay, introduce yourself, and we just say our name. Like it's we're not we're not having a chat with them uh during the lineup. And then they have they have like you know, five seconds to choose a girl. And then you know, if if negotiations don't work with that girl, then they can go back and and try again, you know.

Nosy Neighbor. 31:19

So are guys because I've driven by a brothel, a couple of them. I think most of them are clothes that I drove by. I was in Nevada for work. Uh, I drove by the idea of going in is very intimidating. Do you get a lot of guys that come in thinking they can do it and then end up staying at the bar for half an hour and then leaving? Or if you make that journey, you're pretty much you're gonna go for it.

Rachel Ramsey 31:45

I'm not really sure because we're not allowed to go into the bar until we requested. So yeah, it we at the chicken ranch, it we're not so there's a few different ways that that brothels do it. I believe at Sherri's, it's more of a bar hustle where you you are expected to go out into the bar and mingle with a gentleman and try and get someone to book you that way. The only time we go out into the bar is on Friday nights. We have like a game night slash a little bit of karaoke. On Fridays, where the ladies are allowed to come out into the bar area and mingle with guests. Usually it's just like locals, sometimes some other guys come in and not most of the girls don't go do it. I love karaoke, so I go out and do it. Um, and then they have a party once a month on one Saturday where they open up the pool and they have food and um free entrance stuff, and then a lot of locals come then to to use the pool. But uh, but yeah, that's the only time that we kind of go out and mingle with a gentleman with more than one gentleman, and then we're allowed to like go into the bars areas. Otherwise, it's just if they just pick you off the screen. But yeah, it's I believe sherries and stuff like that. You go out into the bar a lot and you're kind of on a schedule to do that. But at the chicken ranch, we're 24 hours a day, seven days a week. And they can have a line. I believe they don't do lineups between 2 a.m. and 10 a.m. But other than that, like the bell can go off at any point, and you have to go out there and join the bell, join the line.

Nosy Neighbor. 33:26

That's one of the things I've liked about having different girls from different ranches, is everyone's story is a little bit different, and everyone's situation of how they do things is a little different. Is there money aside, is there a certain type of man that you love coming to the the the ranch? You know, the young virgin, the older man, not you know, wealth aside, what gets you excited to to be able to interact with that kind of person?

Rachel Ramsey 33:55

Uh I guess I kind of like an older gentleman who's you know a little bit more experienced, um, and you know, and knows what he enjoys, like a or maybe like a businessman, you know. They just uh need a release and they they know exactly what they want.

Nosy Neighbor. 34:18

Now, I have a silly kind of question next. Um I'm almost a little bit embarrassed to admit it, but you are a beautiful woman. Uh lovely pictures if you go visit the chicken ranch, and I will put a link to it on your blurb. Uh, a lot of regular pictures, but there's also three or four of you very tan. And as a child of the 80s, that kind of tan was very popular several years ago. Yeah, I mean it's still popular, but it it almost looks like you're wearing a uh uh skin-colored bikini because you're so tan. And there's yeah, there's a weird kind of arousal to that, and I I don't know why, but it was very popular in like the 80s, if I recall right from my boyhood looking at magazines. Do you ever get requests asking you like how tan are you? Because uh there's part of me that's like, you know, that'd be kind of there's something sexy about it, and your other they're equally sexy, but for some reason there's a couple shots of you in that is overly tan that just for some reason.

Rachel Ramsey 35:28

Well that was also uh like some some makeup helps that I did like a like a a shiny oil, so it kind of popped the tan a little bit more, and I had I had done gone to the beach on 4th of July and burned the crap out of myself. So that was the result of that. It was like two days before my photo shoot. I was like, I need to get a tan. I just went out to the beach and I burnt myself thoroughly.

Nosy Neighbor. 35:56

There's there's something erotic about it that I'm I'm drawn to, and part of me is like, I almost wonder if I would ask her if I was coming in, how like is she that tan or because all the regular pics are just normal skin color and they're still beautiful, don't get me wrong at all. But there's part of me that's just like that's kind of hot.

Rachel Ramsey 36:17

Yeah, maybe maybe if I put the the sparkly oil on, I can be that tan again. But uh yeah, it was it was it was a little bit of a trick. I was pretty tan that day. Don't get me wrong, I was pretty tan, but and then I went to the the ranch for the first time and I was peeling like a snake for like the whole two weeks I was there, it was so gross.

Nosy Neighbor. 36:39

The downsides were looking beautiful, it was peeling off everywhere.

Balancing Ranch Life OnlyFans And Goals

Nosy Neighbor. 36:44

So you do that and you go back and forth, and then you have an OnlyFans, correct? Yes. What got you doing? Because I mean there is time, and you like you said, you don't use bots or anything like that. So there is a kind of a time, you know, investment in that. Was it just having that connection or having I mean, you know, there's there's a lot of time in the day.

Rachel Ramsey 37:08

I'm still not as productive with it as I should be. But um, yeah, I've I try and release uh a collab scene on my OF uh once a week. And I do like a no pay-per-view on my on my VIP one. Um so I charge like you know $17 a month for my OF, and I they get you know one free scene a week. Um, so I think that's a pretty good deal. Uh yeah. But I just try and try and find some time while I'm hanging with my cats to upload and do all the things I'm supposed to be doing.

Nosy Neighbor. 37:51

How would you break down your percentage of what you hope to be doing as far as the you know the acting of the the porn, doing a courtesan, doing you know, freelance stuff like the OnlyFans? How do you see that breakdown balance? Is you know courtesan something that you want to increase? Does doing the porn shoots? Is that something that you you know, is that the main focus? What is your your work life balance?

Rachel Ramsey 38:19

I mean, right now I'm doing uh the courtesan, like I do two weeks and then I'll go home, and then the next month I do one week, and then the next month I do two weeks. So I'm I'm not doing two weeks every month. I think that's helping. And then I also can be productive while I'm there. Like I said, there's a lot of downtime um at the ranch, so I can still be uploading scenes and all that. Uh I haven't been booking a lot of uh mainstream porn shoots. There's just, you know, it's a lot of competition. So I've kind of just been focusing more on my own content lately.

Nosy Neighbor. 38:59

Is it? I mean, it almost seems like that's the way to go these days, is that the porn route, the mainstream porn, isn't as I don't want to say successful, but so much nowadays is resulting around brands. And I think OnlyFans really open that up for women not to just be porn stars, but you know, we now know porn star names for a lot of women, you know, not everyone out there, but they're becoming more household names. And I think a lot of that was after COVID, and so that got women kind of to realize that they have an identity that they they can use and they can brand versus just being a porn star under someone else's label and stuff like that. Yeah. What do you see? I mean, is there future goals? Are you looking at you know, doing this or that? You said one thing that you want to do is buy a house, but what does the future hold and what are some avenues of you know expanding or doing more? Are you just content with where things are going and taking the flow of things?

Rachel Ramsey 40:01

I mean, I'd like to I'd like to direct a little bit, that'd be fun. And then, you know, get back more into uh quote unquote real acting and directing and like short films and directing porn would be fun as well. You know, I've written a script and uh it's way too long, too much dialogue for for porn people to memorize. But uh, but yeah, you know, I have fun doing my own creative things as well.

Nosy Neighbor. 40:32

And when you go home, are you able to I don't want to say detox because that makes it sound like you're doing something bad and then coming away from it, but are you able to kind of center yourself and find ways to be, you know, Rachel Ramsay or or whatnot and live kind of your own normal life, or is it always you're always thinking of working on the next gig or thinking about going back? Or how do you what are the kind of things that you find fun to do and escape from?

Rachel Ramsey 41:00

Oh, I'm I'm very good at at at not being productive. Uh I play with my cats a lot. We have lots of movies and TV time. I'm petting one of them right now. I go for hikes and walks a lot. I'm a Cali girl, so I love the sun. Read some, cook some. Yeah, I I live alone, so it's very nice to have my own space to come back to.

Nosy Neighbor. 41:29

Nice.

Courtesan Surprises Plus Final Takeaways

Nosy Neighbor. 41:29

And I mean you started off, you know, in a lifestyle where sexuality was very kind of open and free. The course in life isn't for everyone, even those that like sex. I I assume there's a huge kind of mental jump between saying that you enjoy sex and having sex with men that come in. What was kind of the biggest surprise for you? Or what advice would you give someone that says, I like sex too? This might be something for me.

Rachel Ramsey 41:58

I mean, I think I'm even still learning, you know, this was only my second tour, but I think that, you know, it's not always about sex. You know, two of my appointments didn't we didn't have sex. Like one did like a massage and one just wanted like a dance and like a chat, you know, we just danced and we sat in the jacuzzi and we chatted. So I think it's not always about just getting down and doing a blowjob and like having sex. I think for some of the guys, obviously, it's that maybe most of them, but some just want a companion, you know. So I think that like you gotta kind of be adjustable to what the gentleman is there for.

Nosy Neighbor. 42:47

And that's in doing this, I think you're my fifth or sixth courtesan we've had on, and that's one of the things that I learned that I kind of I don't want to say I had a prejudice towards or didn't fully understand, but a lot of being a courtesan is not about sex, it's about intimacy, it's about loneliness, it's about trying to find a connection, and maybe you were injured and had a disability and just didn't feel like you were worth it to find someone to be in engagement with. We had just had a courtesan on from another ranch, and she focuses on you know dating and helping men almost like the the TV or the movie uh hitch, where Will Smith kind of helps guys that are bumbling idiots learn how to deal with women and interact with women, and that's one of the things that she does at her ranch is you know helps men understand the you know how to talk to women and stuff like that. And so it's yeah, as much as we think about it, it's not just all right, I'm here for my bull job, it's a lot of reasoning. I mean, sex is an element. There are guys that go there just for that, but there's so much more, and it's so much on a mental and emotional level that I think our own prejudgments just don't even consider why someone would go to a ranch like that. So I've even been surprised in talking to some of these women of just how much is not about sex, that it's more mental and confidence, and just having that connection with someone. And so I find that interesting. Final question, and I really enjoyed having you on. Beautiful woman, guys. You should check out her pages. I highly suggest checking out her OnlyFans link, which I'll put a link to. Beautiful woman. I am not a tattoo guy, but she has just the right amount of tattoos. Um just absolutely beautiful. And even though the tan is not as prevalent as it is in some pictures, uh, just gorgeous. There's some gorgeous lingerie shots of her. Uh, check out her Pornhub too. Um, it's very nice. I love that as a lonely guy myself. I I love that shower video just because it feels personal and has a connection, and it felt like it was just for me, even though it wasn't. And so I liked a lot of your stuff, and it's not your stuff, at least that I saw, and I'm sure there's other videos out there, but it wasn't because I think porn has gotten very extreme, and so some of it is just wild, use her like a rag doll. And you might have some of that, but that's not some of the stuff that I came across. That's more of what you had, and so I enjoyed that aspect of it that it was more intimacy and more kind of personal. And so check her out, she's very beautiful, some great lingerie shots in the uh brothel thing, and I'll put links to all that. Uh, final question: when you're not with men, uh, what's your go-to toy?

Rachel Ramsey 45:50

Good old vibrator, you know. I like uh uh not necessarily the Hitachi, but something like that. Yeah, I'm a I'm a click girl, so vibrator is my jam.

Nosy Neighbor. 46:05

Nice. Well, Rachel Ramsey, thank you so much for coming on. I love having these talks. I think it's important to dispel the judgment and kind of get to know these women as as real women and kind of get an understanding and take away some of that stigma that people might have. And so I love having these talks and and talking to them not just as figures but as as real people. So I appreciate you coming on, taking time out of your busy schedule and talking to us today.

Rachel Ramsey 46:33

Thank you so much.